Mods I think this thread should be monitored and/or removed- I think there was an unfortunate situation here and that the rest of us brides will never really know what conversation passed between these two. I for one DO NOT want to see a he said, she said back and forth thing start here as I think it compromises the integrity of this forum. I come to read this forum because I am very happy and excited about a major event in my life. It upsets me to have to read these types of threads.