This is why this forum is so great...you get a bunch of honest opinions and they have all agreed with you so far! As everyone else has already said, go with what you want! I remember trying to pick a resort that would make everyone happy because this family member wanted this or this person wanted that...well guess what? We picked a resort that had what WE wanted. And most of the people attending are our close friends who didn't give us any grief lol...only a few family memebers are attending. Of course my mom is because she is like yours and said she will go wherever we decided to go because she is happy for us! Stick to your guns and decide what you really want. Hopefully your new FI will be on your side too...thats kinda important hehe. Also, if you choose the Atlantis, do they still have the cheaper side called the Comfor Suites or something like that? I know they used to and that may be an option for the people who are complaining of the cost...just a thought!