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Quote: Originally Posted by Anna83 Thanks for the support girls! As of right now, his parents have not offered to help pay for anything. I do agree that if they are helping with costs, we should compromise a little more. A lot of the people they want to invite are coworkers (FI and his dad work for the same company). FI does not want to invite all of them either. It's not a company picnic, it's a wedding reception, OUR wedding reception! Defo tell them to bugger off then - they aren't contributing they get no say - you invite who you want not their cronies - trust me I feel your pain lol I told FI to TELL his mother she got no say lol she turned up and that was her involvement - he knows what she's like so agreed happily lol

God thats awful and a right pile of shite lol why can't they just say "do you .. and do you ...champion sorted" I hope I can't really understand them I'm not good with the lovey dovey crap i'd go green and pass out lol

I thought you'd gone quiet lol

We've made it really clear that if they come and stay at another resort they pay the day pass fee. We chose this hotel specifically because it was kid orientated and a reasonable price, also kids free if there are only 2 of them!, best man decided he was staying somewhere else so he's pay the fee. We've made it clear to everyone we are paying for their meals it isn't free - everyone has said fair enough

Hmm well I've got a few -I go in phases lol I've got a massive elephant collection to the point that I have 2 elephant tatts lmao Lord of the Rings stuff but i've stopped that now I have too many little figures lol Bad taste bears - stopped that 2 now it was costing me too much and I have a small house lol FI collects the kotobukiya star wars figures!! But my latest addiction is Thomas Sabo charms they are lush and I love them lol

One of the reasons I'm not doing one FMIL would do exactly the same thing and i'd have to tell her to go screw herself lol Stick to your guns - don't back down if you do she'll be like it for ever x

I wouldn't worry mine was weird lol We were in Mexico and had been talking about poss getting married sometime! and we were in this shop and I saw my ring and loved it so we got it lol He took it off me and said you aren't getting it yet. I was happy with that to be honest lol Anyway that night we went out to the bar and were just chatting drink in hand when he says "oh you better but that ring on your finger in case i fucking lose it!! oh yeah you better marry me 2" lmao I just said right whatever put it on my hand and leaned over to the bar and said vodka and pineapple big one please lmao I don't think there is a perfect its just what makes you happy My m8 had her wedding booked and was 2 months away before she got a ring and was engaged lol

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl me too!! me too!! i've been trying to get the legal ceremony wording FOREVER! i mean, what if it says "love, honor, and OBEY?!" haha i'll have none of that! Too bloody right!! i'm not keen on any of those lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Agape Gems All I can say is SHADEY SHADEY SHADEY! Keep us posted as the saga unfolds..... LMAO now I was gonna say that but stronger lol

Same thing happened to me lol I'm too blunt at times and said you aren't coming that was it lmao FI was so down this week, as was I, that I said he could invite another friend then the cheeky git says well what if she wants to bring a mate!! said well she can but she isn't coming to the wedding i'm sure she can entertain herself for a couple of hours FFS lol

I'm sorry but I think he's a player. I'm sure he's lovely IFyou use him but too many others on here have said its come from him and he's even been awful about it. It would be interesting to see what Riu say tho

Quote: Originally Posted by dmarie17 I'll email it to you. Ooo if you have time can I pinch it too please x

There can be up to 3 weddings per day at our resort but I've not heard if anyone else has the date on here anyway

voted for him

Quote: Originally Posted by SIMBASIM Is it me or does that sees kinda high?? Just a bit but if you average $100 per adult after the 20 I suppose thats $4,500 still mega tho

Quote: Originally Posted by jean-marcus i wouldnt hate it hahaha

Go on Alyssa slap his legs lmao mind you he'd probably like that wouldn't you JM lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by The Rinns After reading others' posts on this subject, it seems like this is common. Why are there so many jealous sister-in-laws out there?? I can only speak for mine but its because they are arses who don't want attention on anyone else! One of his sisters we asked and she said no sorry i can't come because i don't want all the attention on me!! (she has cancer) I'm sorry but my family couldn't give a shite about her, they don't know her, so why would the attention be on her exactly!! lol She's ok otherwise tho never hear from her its great lol The other one ISNT invited because she is a lush, a troublemaker and FI just realised he doesnt like her lmao Its too long a story to go into all the things she does lmao

I'm sorry if I had paid to stay there they would not have escorted me off the premises. I'd have been in jail 2. Bet they wouldn't try and throw out a 6" bloke!! They are going to lose a lot of business and I hope they do its disgraceful

Did you go to Dreams? what did you think?

Thank god I'm in the UK and we don't have to pay any of that! Don't get pre-pregnancy check ups either lol I think you just get pregnant and then you get crap care all via the NHS lol

I have a recurring dream that I am walking down the aisle and I hear FMIL gobbing off to the arse of a new hubby lol so I stop hand my bouquet to my friend walk over and punch her really hard in the face, calmly walk back over pick up my bouquet and carry on lmao Can you tell I'm not too keen on her lmfao

Quote: Originally Posted by dmarie17 Are we supposed to get a gift for our WC? Gaby has been really helpful in answering all of my questions so she definitely deserves something. I'm not sure if thats proper though? What do you guys think? Also, are any of you doing flowers from Dreams or is everyone bringing their own in? I really don't like any of the flowers that they have on their option list but don't want to pay extra. What is everyone else doing? Only if she starts getting her act together otherwise i'm not lol I think the flowers I want are on the list so I should be ok. I'd agree with Jill tho ask you never know

lmao who cares if he doesn't care as long as you got an A and the stress is gone lmao

Go tell her to shove her head up her arse!! god people boil my piss sometimes!!