Hartyt509

You said you'd been busy but christ that's an understatement lol Glad to have you back lol x

She replied !! yay lol she's fine just mega busy - she said she is going to try and post in the next day or so but she is finex

How about inviting her over - giving her slap for being an idiot and going back to him but then hug and tell her you love her lol My m8s did that to me when I got married last time lol

Quote: Originally Posted by MrsFisher2B haha! If I had the guts to do that at my sister's wedding I totally would have! I know 100% my siblings would give me grief for not inviting him, which is why I felt pressure to do so. I mean, my dad and I even work in the same building and I avoid him at all costs (we are on seperate floors so it's not too hard to avoid him). One time I ran into him and he didn't even say hi. So, yeah, I like your idea about being honest. He does not talk to me so I know he won't have the guts to call me up and tell me if he's coming, and he does not answer the phone when I call. might be easier to talk to an answering machine anyway! Thanks for the input! Mine isn't guts its knee jerk reaction lol too much red in my hair ;-) If you have brought up your child on your own and managed to get a degree then you have more guts than 90% of the people in this world because that is a tough job chick. You have to follow your heart its the only way you can be true to yourself - there is no point in kicking yourself 2 years down the line because you didn't do it. People are either supportive or they aren't that's their problem. As long as you have peace with yourself FI and your little one screw everyone else lol You've managed amazingly well without their support, don't take their crap!! xx

Well what I would do probably isn't the right way to handle it. So take from this what you will. I wouldn't have sent him one in the first place, would have pulled him to one side at my sisters wedding and warned him any more of that crap and i'd kick him in the nuts!! lol However as you did send the STD I'd call him and say look i sent it because I felt I had to. You aren't invited - you slag me off at every opportunity and I know you were having a go at my sister's wedding so you are once again not invited. Hang up and not contact him again. Thing is if your sibling do have contact you may get some grief for that approach. Decide what you really want and if its him not there tell him and tell anyone that moans about it to back off - its your life and business not theirs! No-one needs that kind of shit especially from your dad - don't take any stand your ground chick xx

Mine is black so definitely not white lol

Class lmao I couldn't say that with FMIL she's on about her 20th hubby lmao

I'm not sure how I'd feel to be honest. I would probably have made my point at the time then written it off when I got back. There will be 20 of us max and I don't expect I'll see them much at all apart from the actual wedding and that honestly doesn't bother me. I'll meet up with the girls for a drink but if I never see the the in laws the whole trip i'll be a happy girl lol She'll come crawling back when he dumps her guarantee it then you decide whether you are happy with that or not. I'd probably just write it off after i'd said my piece

I think you have to let it go - its her life and her decision to make. For her it was the right decision to have the termination and you just have to let her deal with it. Plenty of us have got back with total arseholes when we knew we shouldn't have lol if you take out the termination aspect thousands of people do it every day for whatever reason. Just be there when it goes tits up again like we all know it will

No I have heard of it and if they want to do that I'd let them lol

God that 2 weeks went over quick lol Glad to hear everything went ok and can't wait for your review x

I agree go straight to the builder, cut out the middleman, this way at least you have some control. Get on their case all the time until they think i need to get this done that bitch is doing my head in lol

I wouldn't be paying for the day pass I agree with your FI - they should have done it sooner! Take a deep breath i'm sure it will be fine I'm the opposite i'm praying that they are full!! lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Christine so confused, what the heck are you talking about? I went to look through your threads and I don't see anything about this. Lol thank god I thought I was losing what little mind I have left lol Btw how cute is the little one now lol

I've had that 2 I blew my stack lol mostly because we had picked the hotel based on kids and they were the only buggers bringing the kids!! They still haven't booked and its supposed to be FI's best man. He is devastated but won't say anything - however if I get hold of him i'll rip him a new one lol

Oh ffs!! If we all did that when we got divorced we'd all be in jail lmao mind you I did consider it Then thought nah i'll let me dad break some bones that'll be more lasting lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by jlw1126 Hi Everyone... I am just starting the process. We were supposed to get married in san diego, but decided to bag it last week...and now we want to get married in playa del carmen. Going through the "interview" process with the possible vendors. I did buy a wedding dress, we did get save-the-date cards (but now they're all wrong)...I did pick out my bridesmaid dresses and we bought our wedding bands! I am definitely a slacker...I'm just having a hard time committing to a planner/vendor. I think I'm getting close, but it would be nice to actually see everything before signing or depositing money!! Know what you mean but for me i'm having to take a huge leap of faith! lol mind i'm marrying FI so why change the habit of a lifetime lmao

You look like you had so much fun and you looked gorgeous x

Quote: Originally Posted by JoannaR Hey Harty.. The site you sent me doesnt work do you have an email address?? Thanks I know I just tried it no idea what is going on with that lol her email is [email protected] i hope lol

Well I thought i was sorted but the photographer wants a 50% deposit lol i'm not at home at the mo so can't access paypal but i thought shit more cash I don't have lol I swear I could kill FI for his bright idea of going away and inviting people lol especially FMIL lol Had a fight tonight because I said if she gives him anything as a wedding pressie (which I doubt!) I don't want it lol so if she gives him cash go buy himself something nice lol so 5 mins of arguing he said you aren't going to give in are you lol I said no so i win lmao

Unfortunatley it doesn't happen so much over here. Our troops get shit recognition and crap treatment and equipment. So thanks for doing that it means a lot. You could also check out Help for Heroes - A charity for the wounded in Britain?s current conflicts that is also a really good site.

Quote: Originally Posted by Jeremy_Gilliam Thanks so much Mummer and Harty. Concerning budgets...you never know until you ask. Very true lol i've pm'd you

I needed wedding insurance because FI is in the army so for me it wasn't an option. If you are a lot of people coming its worth getting because it will cover your dress rings etc whereas travel insurance doesn't

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl jeremy, i've said it before but you really did a fabulous job with kat's wedding ... her photos are gorgeous! I agree - out of my budget though unfortunately boooooooooo lol

i'm on about wedding insurance