Hartyt509

I get them all the time in this job. Normally its and I swear this is true "where's my fucking cheque"!! I now say look you 'll get it when I get it why the hell would I want to hold on to its not made out to me lol Or my fav bang on and on and get abusive then when you get them cash they sure as hell don't deserve they don't even say thank you!! I mean WTF!! Where I live if we go to a restaurant its never how are you its usually "what do you want?" lmao Yesterday we went for tea (dinner?) in a pub and I went over to order and she just stared at me and was so miserable and rude lol I said can I get drinks here she just grunted at me and pointed to a space about 1ft away lol So I said ok thanks happy and walked off lmao Here its old people that are the rudest and I can't help but be really sarky back which I suppose is rude also but they deserve it lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Emily&Matt What if you gave her away and then you broke up with him later (because you can see it coming) and then you couldn't even get your kitty back? I have to agree with this same thing happened with my cousin. He started seeing this girl then dumped her (total looney!!) anyway she gets him a husky puppy!! so he then gets its brother because he can't bear the thought of them being apart, by this time they were about 6 months old. So they get back together, she gets pregnant (I slapped him hard!!) all happy then she finds out she is having a girl (just what she wanted) and tells him get rid of the dogs or they won't be together. I warned him not to do it and said i'd castrate him if he did lol So he said this is my baby and got rid of the dogs. Then guess what 3 weeks yes 3 weeks!! later she chucks him and has made his life hell ever since. He learned his lesson the hardway he lost his pups, his son was heartbroken and still asks where they are and he still isn't with that cow and only sees his little girl when she lets him. DO NOT GET RID OF THE CAT lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Bianca I also refuse to change my name. FI knows its not happening so he isn't opposing it. One thing I did offer is to hyphenate it IF and ONLY IF we do the same with our son's last name who currently has FI's name... But its important to FI for our son to have his last name bc the name dies with him! Yeah we said the same thing but I've told him he'll be in the army and if i register the kid i'll register it in my name lmao he thinks i'm joking but i'm not lmao I mean his surname his mum changed so its not his birth name so screw that lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by PhillyBride09 Good for you!! Why can't Juan answer his own e-mails?? is he THAT busy?? I find that hard to believe since we have had so much trouble finding people who have used him! Hopefully they don't give you trouble with your Photgrapher!! Something tells me you will make them see it your way! hahahaha :-) Too right she's got until Friday before I start bugging my TA to sort it lol Quote: Originally Posted by dancingdolphin I'm so glad Mummergirl posted the link for the pictures from Juan. THANK YOU! I must admit, this wedding is costing more than anticipated and I thought, how bad could the photographer be - it is a beautiful place and I've taken a photography class and even with basic training, can take pretty good pictures. So, I was going to chance it and use the resort photographer. However, after seeing the pics and showing them to FI, I wasn't very impressed. They just seemed OK (won't tell you what FI thought of them). Anyways, yesterday, with just 8 days before we leave for Cancun, I decided to try to find a photographer. Thanks to everyone who has ever posted about photographers. I sent a bunch of inquiries and ended up booking Agustin Murillo from Cancun Studios (Jill's husband). Jill is going to charm Claudia for me since they've worked together before and I haven't told Claudia my change in plans. It's not like she would even respond before I get there anyways!!! Thanks everyone for all your reviews. When I get back, I will post a full review (sorry, probably won't get around to doing a planning thread in the next week). On a side note, I can't wait to be in Mexico. I've been SO stressed the last few weeks with last minute details. Unfortunately, that has caused me to eat more lately and break out! Also, the 10 day forecast is showing showers for the next Wed - Fri. I really pray it doesn't rain the entire time we are down there. That will SUCK. My thoughts exactly!!! Let me know how you get on with the outside photographer you'll probably be back and let me know before Claudia replies lol

I'm not changing mine lol I didn't change it the last time either. FI isn't bothered because quiet honestly it wouldn't have made any diff if he was it wasn't changing for all the tea in china lol

Quote: Originally Posted by luvtoteachlaw Dear "Asshole-who-thinks-he-is-qualified-to-be-Director-of-Education-at-my-college": Stop conspiring to get all the strong, independent, intelligent and confident women who work in administration transitioned into positions where you can argue that their jobs can be eliminated. You are screwing over my friends who are actually more qualified for your job than you are. You know that I am watching you, and guess what . . . you are right. You are in over your head, and I know it. Grow a pair and stop feeling threatened by these women who are excellent educators, co-workers and friends. I wish I was in a position to be honest with the Director about all the crap that you have done . . . Stitch him up you know the law inside out so screw him over lol

Sooo I found a photographer who I really like who could do the pics of the wedding. I emailed Claudia asking if there was an outside vendors fee and she got back to me shit hot lol asking what I wanted to ask Juan and she would ask him to contact me lol bit too late for that tho - so see what she says about the outside vendors fee lol

Quote: Originally Posted by cancunbride Harty...did you try cancun studios? There not that bad. Cecilia Dumas is also very reasonable which is who I decided to go with I'm looking at it but having a hard time persuading FI to do it lol I'm gonna check out the prices tho. I'm checking with the girl that is going to do our TTD and i'm hoping she says she can do and its not that expensive. Wonder what I can trade for the pics with Claudia lol I've searched this thread and i'm sure someone got something else instead of the pics but can I hell find it - anyone remember what it was? cheers At this rate i'll be going for the basic and adding on lol

Do what you want. I'm lucky my dad told me go and get it done at home lol It's FI that won't do it lmao However saying that I'd do what I wanted to do and if dad didn't like it it is his problem lol

Come February I better get my arse in gear and get everything picked then!! crap my plan was to just turn up and sort it then lol I really am not keen on those pics - i am truly stuffed!!! and its already caused a fight with FI lol He thinks the group shots are great!! and said well if they like their pics thats fine. I agree however what he doesn't get is HE IS TAKING OURS FFS!!! apparently thats a risk with everyone - i swear he is a frigging caveman at times. So my pics will be shit lol

You aren't going to like this but I'd get rid of FI before the cat!! When I met FI I said look I have a rottie she is the love of my life and always will be so if she likes you you can stay if not you're gone lol Unfortunatley meg loves him lmao Then I found out he was a dog handler/trainer in the army pmsl Seriously tho if he is this controlling with a cat and uses it against you i dread to think what he would be like with kids. I could understand it if he was allergic but when he met you you had the cat so tough shite!! Just my opinion but the cat would be staying

I agree with Amarillis you need to get rid of the bridal party and when your dad asks why tell him. You are paying for it anyway so tell him exactly how you feel you have nothing to lose and all to gain

I had all mine out and i lived on tomato soup lol Rest assured it won't be long before you are back to normal tho - i think within a week I was eating mars bars lol

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl my first thought was wait until harty gets a hold of this thread, LMAO! I was typing as you were lmfao

I hate mine - the bloody lot are crack pots lol FI has 2 sisters, one is a fruitcake and FI finally realised last year that she was and now he doesn't speak to her. His other sister is very ill but think the world revolves around her so I don't have anything to do with them lol FMIL is a different story I wouldn't get sick of punching the selfish bitch in the face all day long lol I haven't spoken to her in 10 months (which is fab!) and FI and I have an understanding he doesn't tell me all the horrible shit they do and I don't have ammo to fire lol Mine are a bit strange 2 lol my mum is dead and my dad lives on the otherside of the world so FI doesn't really have any contact with dad which is probably a good thing because dad is very sarky and FI doesn't get it lmao If I could have got away with her not coming to the wedding I would have because she just boils me on sight lol especially now she has a new hubby who is an ass lmao

I got sent it at work - its brill lol

Quote: Originally Posted by STACEY So if she booked through a Travel agent, do you think I could still call the Dreams and cancell the room? Ok Ok I am better than that.......... I think Dunno I'd give it a go I mean you know her details lol don't ask me tho I'm a proper twat lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by kate.com LOL Harty! I was totally waiting for your response to this thread. You are awesome! Thanks lol I have no control i'd be waiting for her to punch the shit out of her when she arrived lmao

I'm not bothered either. FI is in the army so if I worried about stuff like that i'd be nuts most of the time lol I tell him its me he needs to worry about lmao

Now I wish I was going to be there - I'd sort the psycho bitch out lol Seriously tho I agree with the girls tell the WC and security and get her lifted if she even thinks of trying anything. I know its easy for everyone to say but try and stay calm and put her out of your mind because she is trying to ruin your day and don't let her. I'd be a right sneaky cow ring the hotel pretending to be her and cancel her room - but I can be really evil quite easily lol

Give her a ring and find out what is going on, you never know she might have had some crisis or other. I know it doesn't answer why she was so rude in not getting back to you but if you were so "together" with everything it seems mad to start again without finding out what is wrong.

I think the straps on mine need doing but i'm trying to lose weight so i'll do something about the dress in about march i think - until then it can stay at my aunts out of my way

Not sure but I'm staying at Dreams Cancun for 14 nights in May and flying from the UK its £1500 pp or if a room is for one person its £1999!

Oh this is an easy one lol You sit them all down and say "You've had your wedding so piss right off - either support me or don't i'm not changing my mind" We had that 2 luckily I have no fear of telling people to "poke off" if they whinge at me about something that is in truth bugger all to do with them. Its as the other girls say come, it would be nice to see you, but if you don't shame you missed a good wedding. I was hoping FMIL would bitch so I could tell her to piss of unfortunately she booked!! bollox lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by LCLIVINGSTON Hi everyone, i'm looking for some advice from those of you who have been married at Dreams Cancun or are in the process of organizing your wedding!! Our wedding is in July 2009, I have just recently sent the deposit and filled out the Q & A form for the wedding and have today recieved a copy of our contract. We have booked the Dreams Ultimate package ($2650) as I thought it included quite a lot in it, I realised that we would probably need to pay extra but the price on the contract has DOUBLED!!!! We are not having anything fancy, there are 31 guests so need to pay extra for 11 as it only covers 20, fair enough. We said we would like a DJ for evening reception OMG how expensive is that!!! Also you have to pay for the sound system for the ceremony on top of that!! The list goes on and on... Just to see if everyone is in the same situation?? If so does anyone have any advice as to getting the cost down a bit or negotiate with what's in the package?? Just a bit surprised at the price...... Thanks for the help!! Louise I scrapped the DJ and am going with my ipod. I've told them I don't want the sound system either. If you look at Kat's review you'll see that it was no use whatsoever. You can try trading stuff in the package for other things you want.