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BarefootBride

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  1. Dont worry about a welcome dinner. Your guest are probably gonna have made plans anyways or will be busy themselves doing other things. You wont look cheap. They wont even know to expect it. So dont worry, why dont you guys just have drinks one night. Buy a round and I am sure everyone will want to buy the bride and groom a drink as well!
  2. Why dont you take some time away from wedding "stuff"? At least a week. There is no need to stress yourself or be stressed around your test taking probably stressed out too FI. Relax. I can assure you that an at home wedding is MUCH more work and stress than a DW. It does appear that you really want alot of people to go since your are funding so much! If logistics are a problem, I would suggest having a AHR so that the grandparents and family and friends who dont make it, can. Since you are funding your inlaws trip, would you mind just booking it at your location? It seems much easier and well... it's essentially a free trip for them. I know you really want to please everyone but its time to step away from the ceremony wedding stuff and focus on what this is really about - You and Your husband. Make sure you two are taken care of first. I hate to see someone stressed out about 1 day of their life. Sometimes I get in this mode and I just have to walk away from it all.
  3. Did you girls see the starfish clutch on the love me website? SOOOO Cute!!! Im so tempted..... Thanks ana maria for sharing!
  4. I say YEA! to less issues! Dont worry about it. I would just wait to see who books and then ask someone to stand in.... Its a destination wedding and we arent suppose to get stressed out... yeah right!!
  5. I think we might just had our 3 year date-anniversary... Not really sure since I never thought to remember the date....
  6. Oh... well sounds mean but theres no room for her in the car!! So I guess she should stay home! ;p I wouldnt worry about her coming to the ceremony. It might be nice for her to be around taking photos.... but the car thing.... I dont know.
  7. 1 3 4 and 5... If I could only seen them bigger... I could make my final decision...
  8. Dang! Im at work - cant see it cant see it!!!! Im sure its pretty though!
  9. Ha Ha Ha - You guys are the reason why I am always buy crazy stuff!!!
  10. Im doing the same kinda wedding. I choose the big package - 1500 and that includes both of our traditional ceremony outfits that we are opting out of! Now that i think of it, I should have bought the middle package.
  11. You shouldnt worry about doing them. Those are just welcome bags... to thank them for coming so far... I think your guest could afford to pack well. You might want to take along a first aid kit for everyone just in case.
  12. I have basic chrome luggage tags too I love them but I do like the passport covers!
  13. Please dont freak out... mine are paying $690 per night Everyone gets their own private bungalow....
  14. If it was me, I would just tell them that they are going to have a good time in Jamaica. I would tell them that they need to RSVP and put their money down on the trip if they dont want to miss out. That way you have some count of people that are actually coming. BTW, I would put tons of legal info and condoms in their damn welcome bags!!! Honestly...not too long ago I would have been wondering if their was some hot men in Jamaica and "where the party was at?" So I am sooo sure these young single men are more interested in getting lucky, partying and checking out your single girlfriends then catching your garter and eating cake! Now as far as the club issue.... that was insensitive. Personally I WISH my FI had friends to take him away to a club - even a strip club - I could care less... But not every woman is like me. So I would be really honest with him. It sounds like he wants a guys night out... if youre not comfortable with that tell him Hell No!
  15. Pretty Dress! I cant believe that it costs that much!! I love your bustles!
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