Just wondering...how do you ask FI family if they are plannig on contributing to your wedding? Is it rude to even ask? I kinda want to know where we stand budget wise. If they are contributing I feel like we should know what to expect. My family is paying for the majority of it and me and my fiance will cover some miscellaneous costs but it would be nice to know if we have help or not. Should we ask? Nothing has been offered yet but we are farely early in the game, wait and see? Or just assume that it's nothing and be pleasantly surprised later? What are your thoughts?