So my bad turns to worse...(another long vent post)
Posted 11 June 2008 - 09:08 AM
Posted 11 June 2008 - 09:23 AM
| Originally Posted by twinkletoes |
Are you f'in kidding me! Is this chick trying to tell me my wedding has not been confirmed!!!! This would be the 3rd wedding coordinator I would have to deal with. And how about the prices of the wedding packages increased AGAIN!!!!! :
I am SOOO sorry!!!!!!!!
When it rains, it pours, it seems!!
First, I am very sorry to hear about your miscarriage, I do believe everything happens for a reason, for whatever it is worth, and you are def in my thoughts & prayers!
About your job, maybe you get some sort of 'severence' pay or go to an unemployment office in the interim while you try to find a new job and send our your resume.
As for the wedding, do you have all the emails saved I would FORWARD ALL of the emails to the new WC, or better, call and ask to speak with the GENERAL MANAGER of the hotel, tell him yu've been jerked around long enough, with a difference WC three times now, and that you were promised such and such date and such and such time (they can't backtrack on that) and that you were promised XX price for the wedding. DO NOT let them try to eff you over on the pricing, girl! They will do that! When I had my site visit, they tried to say somethign increased and I say, OH HELL NO, you said last year to me that it was XX amount of dollars... And they couldn't back out of what they'd promised me.
Don't sweat the ex-MOH. She sounds like a complete wanker anyway!
Moving forward, I know it will all work out for you. I am sending you a HUGE your way and hoping for all the best!
Posted 11 June 2008 - 09:34 AM
Posted 11 June 2008 - 09:40 AM
About the wedding, I think some resorts don't carefully keep track of your brides, so they probably just sent you that info thinking you were a new bride, not somebody already booked.
My coordinator did a great job when I was there, but wasn't so good by email. For example, I asked for a copy of the wedding ceremony text, and she only emailed it to me a month after my wedding! So even though she had already spent 3 days organizing my wedding she didn't recognize my name when she replied to that email AFTER my wedding!
I'm sure it's just a mixup like that.
The job loss and miscarriage are obviously much worse. I'm so sorry. At least you have the wedding to look forward to and help pull you out of this hard time.
Posted 11 June 2008 - 09:49 AM
| Originally Posted by LadyP |
Ok breathe. I feel your pain and stress but it will work itself out and you will be fine.
First gather all of your emails and correspondence with the other coordinators and show the new chick that the date has been confirmed and your have aggreed upon a price and contracts signed if that is the case.
Second being laid off will work in your favor for right now becuase you can collect unemployment and be home getting things to gether for your beautiful August wedding .
Thirdly relax your body needs to heal from the torment it just went throught. By the way your handling it well.
Fourth doo you. Get your nails done get a facial have lunch with you and gey your mind right.
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