Confessions

[wendyjd]

Congrats Jamie!!!

[barbiegirl_27]

I have to confess that I finally came out and asked my best friend, who is also planning a wedding, if she was even thinking of coming to my wedding.....and although all along, since she hasn't expressed wanting to come, I had already thought the answer was no, I'm still super disappointed to find out that her answer is pretty much no. I totally get that she's planning a wedding, but for me to fly home for her wedding will cost almost the same as what it's going to cost for a week at an AI. *sigh*

[wendyjd]

I hope no one shows up to the house this morning... we have a scheduled HOA improvement day and today's plan is to paint signposts. I have about 5 min before people start to show up and no one yet, please don't come. I'd rather pay to have someone do it!!

[bsf&jpg]

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Originally Posted by barbiegirl_27 I have to confess that I finally came out and asked my best friend, who is also planning a wedding, if she was even thinking of coming to my wedding.....and although all along, since she hasn't expressed wanting to come, I had already thought the answer was no, I'm still super disappointed to find out that her answer is pretty much no. I totally get that she's planning a wedding, but for me to fly home for her wedding will cost almost the same as what it's going to cost for a week at an AI. *sigh*

sorry to hear that. Thats just so not fair. This seems to happen A LOT around here.
I would be a child and say "Fine! Im not going to make it to yours either! AND MY wedding will be much more awesome! hmph!"

jk, lol.

[barbiegirl_27]

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Originally Posted by bsf&jpg sorry to hear that. Thats just so not fair. This seems to happen A LOT around here. I would be a child and say "Fine! Im not going to make it to yours either! AND MY wedding will be much more awesome! hmph!" jk, lol.

lol, trust me it's crossed my mind! Double whammy, my other best friend, told me this morning that she can't commit b/c she's looking to get pregnant, and she's just changed jobs which meant taking a pay cut.....i know its selfish, but i'm seriously disappointed and considering not forking out the money to fly home to the other friends wedding.

[Shoesiesluvr]

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Originally Posted by barbiegirl_27 lol, trust me it's crossed my mind! Double whammy, my other best friend, told me this morning that she can't commit b/c she's looking to get pregnant, and she's just changed jobs which meant taking a pay cut.....i know its selfish, but i'm seriously disappointed and considering not forking out the money to fly home to the other friends wedding.

I dont blame you, as selfish and childish as it may seem to others, this is something that is very important to you, so ultimately do what you feel to be right and what would make you feel better! I totally would be feeling how you are right now.

My Confession::
I havent done anything wedding related, besides logging on to BDW and buying stuff online for the past 2 weeks. I really need to get a fire lit under my you know what, and start putting everything together.

[bsf&jpg]

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Originally Posted by barbiegirl_27 lol, trust me it's crossed my mind! Double whammy, my other best friend, told me this morning that she can't commit b/c she's looking to get pregnant, and she's just changed jobs which meant taking a pay cut.....i know its selfish, but i'm seriously disappointed and considering not forking out the money to fly home to the other friends wedding.

oh man! double wammy in deed! Well, like everyone says around here, all you need is him! When its just you looking into his eyes, and he into yours, that moment is all that matters!

That little phrase is getting me through! It sparked that little fire that finally made me excited about our wedding again!

Confession: I have been such a fatty this last month before the wedding!
Pizza, soda's, ICE CREAM, carbs Carbs & CARBS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
no fair cause Ive been doing GREAT this whole year. Last year I dropped 30lbs. This year a car accident cause me to stop working out and even gain back a few pounds. Then I work to lose em, only to slowly eat them back on.
boo!
Next week, last week in town, I am eating only SUPER HEALTHY and cutting out most carbs! I CAN DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5lbs is all I ask . But if I can push it to ten why not? LOL

[KittenHeart]

Here's my confession for the day... I hate the fact that I'm changing my last name so much, I never wanted to. I seriously considered just not doing it legally just because it's such a PITA until I got a free membership emailed to me on Thursday from MisstoMrs.com that helps you easily legally change your name on all the vital forms you need to, I guess it was my sign

[barbiegirl_27]

Thanks Ladies! I have promised FI that I needed just a day to be sad about it all, and then I'll stop dwelling on it. Thanks for the words of encouragement....you're so right, in the end it's about me and my FI. At least I'm finding out now and not right before the wedding!

[kevnanna]

I wish people would STOP telling me where they DON'T want to go, and be a bit more helpful and tell me where they WOULD like to go!!!

 

My dad and his GF have vetoed Cuba and Jamaica and are iffy on the DR

My mother told me Mexico is too expensive and to go to Cuba

Our friends have mentioned that they don't like the beach

FH's mother asked us why Mexico, people keep getting killed there

my GF and her FH say Mexico sucks (never been, as far as I know)

 

All in all, I get lots of "don't go theres" and no "this place is great", well my dad did mention how amazing the GBP Akumel was, but his DGF likes to go to new resorts each time she goes away!

 

So yeah, all I want to do is tell these people to stuff a sock in it, but in reality all I'm doing is stressing out more and more!!!