I am sooooo on board with you ladies. It was initially supposed to be just my hubby and I but soooo many ppl kept saying they wanted to join us, soooo I contacted a travel agent, made arrangements and a small down payment (that goes toward my travel at the end) and set up payment arrangements for my many friends and family. Only my immediate family has booked. None of my hubby's family and none of my friends. My thing is...I cannot move forward with OOT bags or anything else, if I do not know how many ppl will be in attendance. 1st payment was due in November, 2nd is due in February. I guess we will see if more ppl pay but this can def be frustrating. I'm trying to keep saying, its all about hubby and I but I know 30 ppl will book in June and then I will only have 2 months to starts finalizing my plans. I was considering doing 25 of everything and that's that! UGH!