Hi, I was looking into the Paradisus too but ended up with the Elegance. My future hubby really wanted it at the Elegance. Their price list was much easier to figure out. Jamie seems to understand it well though so I would ask her questions. It really get complicated when you are deciding on private dinners, flowers, open bar, reception, cocktails, wow- everything gets fuzzy. The WC's do help you figure it all out but I just wish they would change their forms to make them easier to read for dummies like me LOL. I never actually compared prices for the weddings between the two but the rooms are more expensive at the Paradisus. I decided on the private dinner at the wet bar and the reception there also, Still deciding whether to do an open bar or pay 5 dollars for wine and beer only. Good luck with the planning