Hi wife2be So far I have cocktails at 4:30 in the lobby bar, 6pm wedding in the gazebo and after that private dinner and reception at the wet bar. the wine and soda are 5 dollars if u have the private dinner but i think if u have it at the restaurants its free. I am also getting my hair and makeup done there. i am still trying to figure out what hairstyle i want so i can bring a picture for the hairdresser to copy. i was going to get a makeup class at clinque but i figured i wouldn't feel like doing it myself so i might as well hope for the best. MY WC write down everything that i wanted so i feel better now. I do have to send in the package to make sure its all there for me. She did confirm everything and once that is done- you will feel better. your WC should set up your hair and makeup appointments for you. I think I wrote my WC twenty times to iron out all the details. I am annoying that way