Hi Amy, Planning a wedding period is daunting, but a DW can be as easy or as hard as you want to make it. My FSIL picked a resort and was okay without making any additional plan regarding her wedding until she arrived, and it was beautiful and totally stress free for her. Then there is me, I love the little details; but even though I do having a DW makes the details less annoying and more fun and I don't have to worry about decorating a whole location because it is already done for me by God and nature. So have fun with it, think about the kind of resort you and FI want, and go from there. I would check out working with a travel agent because they will be an invaluable resource, I know there are a LOT recommended here.