Hey CJ- Â Wow that really sux. But thats good that you are being positive and focusing on your big day. We definitely have missed you on the forum- you are usually on here every day like I am so I was worried about you. Other than that it sounds like you are doing pretty good. I can't believe you only have 21 days. That is ridiculous. I am so excited for you. BTW- the little sand ceremony book you made is super cute! Â Â Well I gained another 3 pounds so I am going to fit in my dress!!- a week with the in-laws is a sure recipe for weight gain! Â Printed out all my checklists and forms today for packing, photography,and emergency contact stuff. My planning binder is getting really thick. Â