Same thing happened to us. We expected like 10 people, now we have 30 to 35 coming. Everything has been made larger. We had thought we'd do a small destination wedding, then a party when we get back. Well the "party" has now turned into a full-blown reception with 300+ people. It will be fun, but now I feel as though I'm planning 2 weddings. I need 2 meals, 2 photographers, 2 djs, 2 kinds of centerpieces, etc. It will be fun in the end, but gosh this is stressful!