Congrats and welcome! I'm sure you'll be able to find plenty of info on here to convince your FI! A DW won't be completely headache free, but it will be totally worth it! Good luck with your planning, picking a resort is the hardest part (I've been looking since last November! haha) Check out Jamaica, that's where I'm hoping to go, potentially Iberostar Rose Hall Suites or Gran Bahia Principe. Just two suggestions