Quote: Originally Posted by midnight24 i agree with your husband on this one...just go with the flow. that's the beauty of a vacation...no set plans. you have one day planned for your guests - THE WEDDING!! let them do their own thing too...it's their vacation as well.
plan things day to day, hour by hour. let your biggest decision each day to be :
'do you go to the beach or pool, do you eat at the buffet or al la carte, do you drink beer or rum?' haha
you'll find even if the resort is huge you'll still run into everyone all the time. I agree with that, most people expect a vacation out of coming to your wedding and only really want one day planned for them. I'm sure people will ask you if you have anything planned and then that's when you can tell them, otherwise just go with the flow. Your wedding is only one day, that's the only day that needs any structured plan, otherwise just enjoy the rest of the week. You'll see that you and your guests will have more fun this way!