Our wedding is in February and AHR in March...
6 months before- get engaged
5 months before- book resort, AHR venue, photographer for e-pics and AHR pics, book DJ for AHR, order STD/invites, informed everyone of plan for DW
4.5 month- discover the BDW forum and have minor panic attack due to other brides preparedness, get e-pics taken
4 months- send out STD for reception/invites for ceremony, book acoustic guitarist for AHR, order dress (have to pay a rush fee because I waited so long and am getting it back 3 weeks before we leave for Mexico and still have to do two "fittings"...I do not recommend waiting this long. haha.)
3.5 months- book cake lady for AHR, have wedding band designed, register
3 months- projected...order invites for AHR, figure out OOT bags, centerpieces for AHR, talk to WC at MP to start the ceremony and private function planning, FI wedding attire and band, figure flowers out, music for ceremony
2 months- projected...gifts for parents and cookie makers (Italian and aunts make Italian cookies for AHR), shoes, jewelry.
1 month- send out invites for AHR (2 months before AHR), get dress
I actually just made my "to do list" a couple of days ago so hoping to cross more things off soon!