Brenners

We are have the Strawberry Passion package - our guest numbers are closer to 25. 65 is quite a few so that is great! We are using Erick Rodriguez from Claudia Rodriguez Studio and they are in the Cancun area. There are many great photographers in the Riviera Maya. Do you have a particular photographer that you are looking at using? If so, then it is smart to see if another bride will split the cost for the travel and room expenses. If you don't have anyone in mind, I would recommend checking out the Vendor Reviews for the section regarding photographers so you can get an idea of photographers in the area and their styles. Good luck planning!

Joanne, were you able to get your starfish? I hope you have a fantastic wedding!

Yes, the cost is per string. Not sure on the cost. Once I find out from my WC, then I will share with you.

It depends on how many guests you have. The gazebo is beautiful but I think it is better suited for smaller numbers. Otherwise the guest's views are obstructed by the columns of the gazebo. If you go to the reviews section of BDW, you will find many pictures of the various ceremony and reception locations to give you an idea of how each will look. Good luck!

We decided to go with Erick Rogriguez from Claudia Rodriguez studio. I believe he is Claudia's brother. His pictures are amazing! We were disappointed that Claudia was not available but we think Erick is great! Good luck!

You really have to love your dress. It is so important that you know that you have "the one!" Congratulations!

Beautiful dress and beautiful bride! Congrats!

Have fun!! That sounds so exciting!

All I can say is wow. So many people have their own mess, right? I hope that everything works out for you. Sounds like you and your fiance are strong together and that makes all the difference in the world. Good luck!

I didn't know there was a thread. Thanks! I am on day three. I can feel it!

That is a great idea. Your seamstress is very smart!

My fiance got Insanity for me today so tomorrow will be the first day. Wish me luck!

I am so happy to hear that. I hope that he follows through on what he promised to do. And congratulations for having the courage to have that conversation. I am sure that it wasn't easy but you were strong and came through it with a plan in place. Keep us all posted!

I have bought shoes and clothes from ideeli and service was not a problem. I got my items in a reasonable time and they were perfect. Good luck!

Ladies, ideeli is having a bridal gown sale as well as a sale on accessories and bridesmaid and groom's attire. Tomorrow is the last day so check it out if you want a deal on your dress!

I think you need to tip what you can afford and what you think is reasonable for the services that you are provided.

Check to see if you can get free legal advice about getting the car in your name. If you are the one making the payments and not him, that may help with that situation. You may need to be the one to leave. He clearly isn't going anywhere and if you truly want to move on, then you may have to find another place to rent for the time being. On the upside, it sounds as though he cannot afford it and will have to move in with his parents which is exactly what he deserves! That would be poetic justice. Seriously, start looking for jobs near your family or start looking for a cheaper place in the area you live now but you can't stay there. You will never move on and clearly he doesn't want what you want in this relationship.

I agree that he sounds like he regrets his decision - to a point. Only enough to keep stringing you along. He may or may not be trying to keep you on the line, however, he clearly has no intent to stand up to his family so the "I love you" calls mean nothing. Actions really do speak louder than words and his actions have said that you are not his top priority and never will be. He appears to lack a spine and his mom sounds like one of those old witchy women from a Jane Austen novel - she got what she wanted so now she wants to pretend to be the bigger person knowing full well that you will refuse her "invitation" so that she can say that she tried but you won't be reasonable. You may need to get a lawyer involved if you both own the house and he refuses to leave. That costs money, however, many employers offer an EAP (Employee Assistance Program) to their employees where you call and can get in touch with a lawyer for free legal advice. It would be worth a try because the next step in the mind of his calculating and manipulative mother may be to get her son the house and leave you with absolutely nothing. She sounds capable of anything and you need to protect yourself - especially now since he is doing his own manipulation by confusing you with his words of regret.

st.lucia bound, how are you doing? Are you still living in the same house as your former fiance? Just wanted to touch base to see how you are doing. I agree with elisamarie that the sooner you move out, the better off you will be.

You may not be too late. You still have three weeks left. Contact your wedding coordinator and find out!

Gotta love zappos! That is where I got my bridal shoes. Thanks!

Any idea how many strings of lights they have?

Oh that sounds perfect! Thanks so much!

Those are so sparkly and gorgeous! They actually would go well with my rehearsal dinner dress. Where did you get these???

Those are gorgeous! I love Badgley Mischka! I looked at some for myself but could not find the pair I liked in my color and on sale! ideeli is awesome as I have bought other shoes and clothes from them. I bought my dress rehearsal dress on that site. You will ROCK these shoes! Congrats!