Chalk another one up for us- I'm going through the same thing- but with only three couples. One RSVP'd, has not booked, and I have a feeling she will not. The other two, we really thought would come- oh well! One that really irks me though, is a DW we went to for FI's friends last May- and they have not said replied to our April 1st cutoff.
In one hand, I want to go with a majority on this one, and just not reach out- but on the other hand, I don't want people to be without favors... I'll let FI decide what he wants to do since HE will be reaching out to his own friends.
I know it's been said time and time again, but REALLY people? Especially you that we paid an arm and a leg for to hit up the FL keys last year and booked way far in advance AND still sent the RSVP!