The DR is an island of great diversity, and pretty much has something for everyone. You just have to find it. The north shore at Cabarete is a viable, affordable option to Punta Cana.
It's rich in culture + offers many options....all-inclusive or self-catering.
I'd be happy to answer your questions, or help in any way I can.
Wishing you all the best, and as smooth a transition as possible.