Quote: Originally Posted by eloping789 Unfortunately, I think a lot of people no longer think it's necessary to RSVP which sucks! If I actually planned our AHR based on RSVPs, I'd probably cancel it due to lack of attendance, but I KNOW that most of the people we invited will come. Some of our closest friends haven't even RSVP'd. They just seem to think we'll expect them to show up. Oh well ... Are you having trouble planning? Maybe I am making too much of this, but it seems like a big deal to me. My best friend and I planned our weddings a week apart, so her honeymoon would be my wedding. She has 3 kids, so there is no way she would have been able to have her honeymoon, then go away for my wedding within the same year. It has been hard on us both, since we need to pay for our own weddings, plus dresses to be in each others wedding. On top of that, I have her shower to pay for, the hotel the night of her wedding, hair and makeup for her wedding, etc. Thats why I think I'm so bent out of shape about it. Any other time i would say oh well if I spent extra. But at this point, a couple hundred dollars that gets wasted on the extra stuff is a pretty big deal.