cantwait2718

Hi and welcome. I can definately help with the kids info thing I spent a good two months straight looking for places that had a good variety of things for the kids. Pm me or send me an email [email protected]

I just tried a couple maggie dresses on and I am in love.

me too!! really frustrating. other sites r ok, but not this one.

I would let her know as "nicely" as possible that this is your wedding and that her comment really hurt your feelings. I think her response to u was very insensitive. She seems as if she is avoiding your initial confrontation. Maybe she doesn't have the money to stay where u r staying and she wants everyone to stay with her. Which is just rude. If she doesn't come to her senses about this then u may have to take more harsh action.

The one here won't let u try on wedding dresses without an appt. U can look all u want. It's pretty dumb bc they weren't that much help to me when I did try them on. So I would call the one near u and find out. They let us do bm dresses without one though.

I agree with the girls who r saying that if your guests want to travel with someone it's their perogative to do that. If u invited them and guest it really changes nothing at the wedding. If u were having your wedding here and they were inviting a guest u wouldn't have any say in who they bring. I understand that at a destination wedding the amt of people is less than an atw but they are paying to go to your wedding. Now with the people who r saying that friends have invited other "couples" to travel with them, that's weird and would prob make me uncomfortable.

The wedding is at dreams in mexico, in Nov on the 13th. If that helps.

I want to send RSVP cards with the save the dates and I want there to be three options. A yes, a no and a maybe but I want them to be cute little sayings. Any ideas? My creative juices are just not flowing these days. Thanks for any help. Sarah

We will get there the tuesday b4 our wedding. So the 10th. We will be there at the same time. I agree about the reviews. Of course there is still going to be stuff going on. I'm not worried, I am sure it will be wonderful.

oops forgot the date.lol. November 13th, 2009.

I am officially a Dreams PA bride. I am so excited.

I agree. No detailed explanation needed.

Now did it work?

I posted this under the show us your dress but I didn't know how to make the picture on here. So here it is. I got it for really cheap. I may keep looking but I really love it What I will probably do is get a second dress To wear after the ceremony.

I think it's beautiful.And u look beautiful in it. Is it just the train u don't like?

Sounds like u 2 have it all worked out. What a sweet guy u have. I am sure she will come around.

love the colors. they look awesome.

Quote: Originally Posted by Michelle thank you so much for all the good luck messages i try so hard just to remember this is temporary...its just soo difficult some days to stay positive! cantwait2718 do you mind if i pm you tomorrow with questions?? im too tired tonight but i would love to ask you some things! and kimmaranto if you dont mind me asking did you girlfriend find a good way to sleep that was comfortable?? I will be looking 4 them. Hang in there."HUGS"

I went on a travel site, tripology, put in what I was looking for and then 3 agents contacted me. All of which have planned destination weddings so they say. But they answered my request knowing it was a dw. So the one I wasn't a fan of but he kept emailing me. One kept tryin gto push her own agenda on me no matter how many times I told her no. And the other one Has been back and forth with me 4 ever with no quotes. Lots of ideas nothing concrete. Needless to say I have answered all 3 of their questions and told them to the tee what I am looking for. All I have asked for is estimate on travel for 2 for 4 d, and 7d, and travel for the 4 of us for 10. And to send me a brochure on the wedding. No group stuff yet. Nothing. I just got 6 emails from the one ta with more "ideas" no money. I have asked the same question about the same resort 3 times and still haven't gotten an answer.

Thank u very much for the info. And the info about the travel here is helpful too. I did a search with destinationwedding.com and it said no results. I will try dw.com. Like I said b4 I think I am just impatient I think. I have never booked with a ta, So I don't know how long this is supposed to take. I just think for the 3 (which r not from here) that I contacted 3 weeks with no quotes for anything is a long time. I think I have been pretty specific on what I want but still NOTHING. Except more questions.

I have never had one myself, but I am a nurse and help people with them all the time. Also one of my friends in highschool had to have one. The other girls have really good suggestions. If u have any questions I am willing to help.

Quote: Originally Posted by Erin0409 I am not a patient person myself, it can be hard. Do you know what area you are interested in ? Is there not a travel agent that you trust or comes recommended ? We did all of our own research with the help of trip advisor and debbie's caribbean, I had received a good review of one agent, sent her an email and she called us within 5 minutes. Are you looking for a wedding coordinator, is that what the Destinationwedding.com is ? Best of luck Erin We are interested in the caribbean or mexcio. and I do not have a travel agent. DW.com is a site that says it will help with planning your whole wedding. You give them $50 which is then supposed to be credited to your trip, they set up a wedding website and book all your guests.

I am no help bc I am having the same problem. I hope u find someone good. Good luck. I put a request in here how long does it usually take for someone to contact u?

Has anyone used this site to book their wedding? Can u give me some details about it? What was good about them? Bad? I am considering it bc the 3, yes 3 agents I have contacted are really slow. Or maybe I am impatient. I started my search for the perfect place almost 3 weeks ago and still have no quotes. NOT 1. Am I being unreasonable does it normally take that long? I just want to pick a place so I can do STD's and get the rest of the details together. I was sure by now I would be making my std's and addressing them by now. Thanks in advance for any help.

This post scares me. We were looking at a little over 20k to do an at home wedding and I am hoping to do this dw for about half of that. But most of your numbers are scaring me. I am still waiting for the ta to get back to me on prices for the places I picked.