I ran into some problems with my mom about my wedding being a dw. Begrudginly, I asked my fiance if it would be ok to look into having the wedding locally. We visited reception sites, hotels, restaurants, etc. We had no emotions, no happy feelings, just doing it to make our parents happy. As is turns out, all of the wedding planners at those places told us the same thing, "We would love to have your business, but in the end, be true to yourself as a couple and follow your heart." You two will be pledging your lives to one another and nobody else on that special day. In the end, that's all that counts. I hope that this helps out!