NotYourAverageDW

I know this thread is old, but has anyone used Roundhill Villas?

Thanks ladies. What would I put with it? Would it just be crisp white linens and this centerpiece? Would it need more embellishments around it? Like candles? A table runner? Pieces of wood or branches? What do you think?

Trish, happy planning!

Wow..that's a bit of a pickle. I don't think there is anything wrong with keeping it at 4-3. Was there someone you wanted to include on the groom's side but couldn't? If so, now is the chance to include them. If not, I'd leave it like it is , and return the items and use the money towards a couples spa treatment, or generally towards the budget.

Oh wow, those are exquisite!

I love this! Very simple, elegant and unique. Good job!

Hi jessica. Welcome and congrats!

Crytal, and happy planning!

Caroline. Happy planning!

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and have fun!

Mary and happy planning!

Well said Morgan. I view photography as an investment, and as such a portion of the budget is strickly for this investment of memories. These are the things you'll get to pass on etc.

Wait. That's what we're doing. We're toying with the idea of a December wedding. If we do that...then the AHR will defininetly be in June/July. If we have a May wedding, the AHR will definitely be the first weekend of September. We're looking at a 4-6 months break after the wedding for the AHR.

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and happy planning. I don't know much about the location and venues that you mentioned...BUT if you run a search of the forum...there is a recent thread about paying for your wedding without going in debt. There is also another thread about hidden fees with Travel Agents, Planners, and hotels. Hopefully someone can source the threads for you. Anyways, you'll find a lot of help and information on this site. Good luck!

Absolutey stunning!

Quote: Originally Posted by bashigyal But of course, Rose Hall is the most famous great house....with the most famous prices to match! $8,000US for the vendor fee alone! Yeah....ummm....that's ok. I'm not going broke on my wedding and certainly not starting my marriage in debt, thanks! I am getting quotes for ceremony and reception including catering for 100 guests at under $6,000. Rose Hall can keep their Great House! LOL LOL! So with food, decor etc you're looking at atleast $16,000-$20,000. I tell you...these places are catering to very high society clientelle and I'm afriad the average bride isn't what they are looking for!

This is what we're considering. I don't know if anyone has done this before or something similiar. What do you guys think? Too simple? Too plain? Too boring? centerpiece.doc

Sewing kits...I didn't even think of sewing kits. Good idea! Looks great so far.

Wow you lucky duck! Your MOH and BMs are so creative!

I know this sounds weird, but, because all our guests are flying in from the five continents, to Jamaica for our wedding, we're planning on sending out our STD's 14-16 months in advance, the first of a series of 3booking reminder notices 10-12 months in advance, the formal invitations 8 months in advance, and the last 2 booking notices 6 months and 3 months in advance. I know this looks weird, but our friends and family are already asking us to send STD"s and notices out first, so they can start requesting the dates off, and then the traditional invitations will follow. It all depends on your family and friends and how much time you'll need to book and be there. Luckily for us, we still have a few years (that's why I think a great TA/WP combo is essential). Anyways, hope this helps. Maybe you could give them 12 months grace?

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this. That really bites. Quote: Originally Posted by becks If she is still invited, which I am assuming she is because you didn't say otherwise, I would play innocent... So, play innocent/naive and just say something along the lines of " "whatever you want is fine, generally we think most of our guests will be in sundresses/cocktail dresses (whatever)." When you tell her that, if her point was to figure out if she was going to be a member of the bridal party, she'll know and you'll not have to tell her she's not part of the team. However, if you point is to have a conversation about the hurt she's caused, that's an entirely different discussion. I totally agree. Keep it simple and talk about the general dress of the other guests. Quote: Originally Posted by EricaG ......If you never asked her to be in the wedding, why would she assume she was? Some people really don't think......you could always tell her that she can get a dress in whatever colour as she is more than welcome to come as a guest but you will not be requiring her to stand up for you. If she asks why, you could always be honest and say that when you really needed her to be there for you, she wasn't, so you have ask people that stood by you in this difficult time. You can also point out that she didn't even know the location had changed over 2 months ago. Erica and Becks said it all. Please don't feel pressured to include her in your bridal party or even on your guest list! She has not expressed interest, consideration or concern for you and your FI at all...and its like you are an after thought..."Oh I think I could use a vacation...Oh...Katiebelle is getting married in Jamaica...there's my vacation Sweet!" If she is already on the guest list and already has received an invitation...I would simply say as PPs have "We're asking all guests to wear cocktail/beach/etc clothing." You don't have to discuss the details with her. Something tells me that if she hasn't been around in your time of need and STILL think that she is in the bridal party, she may decide to wear the bridal colours to blend in... This is so crappy. You so do not need this at all! Quote: Originally Posted by kate.com PS... how is your FI feeling? How is your FI doing?

I know of Kelly Ng...but I thought she doesn't do DW? Has she changed her policy now?

I agree with previous posters. Hold firm. You have paid and signed a legal binding contract. My only assumption to the error in their judgment is that this new wedding is generating more profit for them than yours would, and they want to have their cake and eat it to - by having both weddings. Hold firm! They are already profiting greatly - their resort is EXPENSIVE!! My only concern is that they may spite you and give you less than hospitable service. Resorts have been known to disregard the guest in the entire equation. My final question is - how did this other bride get your contact information? If they the hotel, passed your information along to her with the hopes that she would intimidate you into giving up your date you need to let them the hotel (maybe bride as well) know that it was inappropriate and very unprofessional and that actions like that have far reaching consequences for them as a business. Unbelievable! What a bunch of jerks!