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I tried to PM you to work something out but it said you don't allow them.

Congrats! I never smoked so I dont have any advice. But from what I hear, you will start feeling a difference in your breathing and health soon.

lmao you are probably right but it would be so fun!! I would love to come to the wedding.. The FI and I will have to figure out when and if we can go...

We should try and get a few people on here to do site visits together and all go out

Hmm that could work too! I'll look into it! I really want to go during one of our "BDW" weddings. lol... You all are like family now.

Don't think of it like that... think of it as your wedding beach or not. Get what you love it only comes once

Quote: Originally Posted by LadyP It was made to my measurements. Infact the link is eBay Store - gianinarbridal: wedding dress bridalgown, party evening or bridalmaid, flower girl dresses sorry I missed this questions. And you already got it and love it?

Quote: Originally Posted by LadyCheese My friend at work ordered her dress from Ebay, its being made in China and shipped to her...she paid $9.99 for the actual dress but had to pay like $180 in shipping fees. She showed me the picture and it looks gorgeous. When it comes in, I will let you guys know how it really looks, etc. Awesome... I have a dress but some of those China dresses are amazing and so cheap!

What store did you buy that through on ebay? I saw several china based stores.

Quote: Originally Posted by nueland I just bought a dress from ebay tuesday, It was one that you give them your measuments and it is made in china!!! I will let everyone know how it turnes out when I get it!!! Oh I saw that dress! It was amazing... I can't wait to hear how it turns out. Some of those dresses are beautiful. Just scares me.

So, is anyone getting married this coming June? I am considering a Site Visit and I want to "crash" someones wedding HA HA HA not really. I just want to see a wedding in action.

I like the second one a lot! I am jealous!

You will find tons of info. Use the search engine and see what you can find. And don't be afraid to ask questions.

Have you girls ever experienced the exhilirating fart on the leg while you are sleeping? It's so very romantic! NOT! lol.

Yeah, you can have an indoor reception at Dreams. Just go to their website Dreams Resorts contact the wedding dept. They will be able to help you.

Most of the resorts will have a reception for you. You need to go to their website and contact them. There is a lot of info on this site as well. I am getting married at Dreams with a traditional reception to follow. I guess I don't know what you are asking.

I was wondering when did you guys do your Site visits? I was planning on going for my birthday in June. My wedding is in Sept. Do you think I should go sooner? What all do you do?

My FI was the same way... he didn't want to offer any info at all. He was never negative he just didn't care. Then I would talk to him about what stuff cost and he would have a fit. SO, I told him to give me a budget and stay out of it. LOL. He did and things have been much better. IMO if they aren't going to help then they need to stay out of it. Or like my Grandma always said if you aren't cooking stay out of the kitchen.

Maybe she is upset that you are having a DW? Sounds like something is bothering her

Quote: Originally Posted by LadyP mine is an ebay Did you have it made for you or did you just buy it from someone?

Has anyone ordered a dress off of ebay? Like the made for you dresses? There are some from China and America that you give them your measurements and they make the dress. Has anyone done this? If so was it an alright deal? They seem really cheap. I am not too worried about it lasting forever 'cause I am doing the TTD the next day. But I want it to look beautiful!

I can't wait to to my OOT's I need to wait until I know more about how many people will be there. I hope mine look half as good as yours!

So, I was thinking last night as I was laying beside my FI I am really glad he doesn't stick his tongue in my ear. I really hate that. When you are making out with someone and they stick their tongue in your ear. I do however love light kisses on my collar bone. I never told my FI that but he does it anyway. Do you all have anything that totally turns you off or on?

Hey! DC Bride here.. I can't wait!! There are a lot of threads about it... just go to the search on the upper right hand side and put in Dreams Cancun. You will find pictures and reviews and great questions. WELCOME!

Quote: Originally Posted by hollisandsteph That is crazy that they have the same name! I have not met and adult with Asbergers yet...that I know of. I often wonder what Drew will be like as an adult. I honestly have trouble seeing him as a productive adult. He has little ability to do things on his own. Well, let me rephrase that. He has no desire to do things on his own. He will complain until someone in the house gets tired of it and gives in. We have been working on this though. He does have some responsibilty. He has to take care of the family cat (feed, water and change the litter) and pick up the bathroom. He gets paid for it weekly. He is also sooo angry. Is your friend's boyfriend that way? The psycologist said that part of it is male adolecent hormones kicking in but as long as I can remember he has been angry. He has had a rough life with his mom not being around though. Not that I am trying to make excuses or anything. You know, we have a lot in common. We met our FH on the internet and have people with Asbergers in our life...lol Well, part of the disease is also that they focus on certain aspects of life. Like for instance my MOH's Drew is really into the Civil War and Bird Watching lol. So, he focus's a lot of his energy on that. He also is in the Wine industry for work. He ends up drinking a lot. Which just makes him worse. He is really random and says things that are really hurtful or embarrasing. It may help to find what he is really interested in and let him focus his energy on that. No matter how simple it may sound to you. He will want to learn every single little detail about it. Drew as far as I know doesn't have extreme anger issues. He just doesn't have any social skills. It's like you put him in a social situation and he freaks out and acts up. All in all he takes care of himself and keeps a job. I think he is on some kind of gov't program for housing. It is an autistic program. He has a social worker that checks up on him from time to time as well. I try to be kind and understand his disability but it is so hard when I hear him say hurtful things to my bestfriend of twenty years. We do have a lot in common lol.