I agree with Carly totally. A ton of our friends are going but FI's dad isnt going cuz he says cant afford it (even though just bought new mustang, new paint job for motorcycle, and more). I am so sorry you are going through this. Unfortunately it is all something you ultimately can not control so if they make it that is fabulous!! If they dont, that is very selfish of them but you still need to try your very best to enjoy your day with your FI!! I hope it all works out for you!!