All right, ladies, here's the update:
She never emailed me back. But my mother spoke with her and her mom (my aunt), and told them flat out, I'm not paying for anything of them and how could she be so rude as to flat-out tell me she thought it was only "logical" for me to do so. So she told my mother she was going to "try to find a way to come" but that the other people she planned on bringing "probably will not be able to come." UM, WHAT THE FUCK SHE SERIOUSLY EXPECTED ME TO PAY FOR FIVE OTHER PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!! And my mom said, That's fine but it's ridiculous for you to think that E & J would have paid for all those people.
GO MOM! I thought that was so funny. So as is, I gues she may come, but maybe not? Who knows but at least it was made very clear to her where I stand. ANd how assy is it that she couldn't even confirm that she got my email? WTF is that That is RUDE!!!!!!!!! I hate when people blatantly blow you off. At this point, I'm like why even come to my wedding if you're gonna act like a child and not even respond to my damn email!!!