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WOW! I don't need to worry about being kind. You are right to be concerned for your mother! I have no brilliant or wonderful advice. Sorry. But my heart goes out to you and you will be in my thoughts and I will say a special prayer for you/your family!

Quote: Originally Posted by albrosious To be honest, and maybe I am the only one that feels this way, I think it is a bunch of baloney! I bet some of this story did happen. I bet she probably did have a ring go missing but on the other hand, to many things don't add up for me. I would stay or have DH stay an extra day to straighten out the mess. Even if I have to pay a little extra money. Also, why o why did she not mention insurance anywhere? does that mean this lovely person really spent 25000 on a ring and did not think to get it insured? then there are her other complaints, these coupled with the ring, I feel like it is a scam. Just my opinion, I just felt when I was reading it that it seemed phoney. Feel free to tell me that you don't agree but that is what my gut is telling me! I agree! If you can afford a ring that costs 25K, then you can probably afford to stay for a couple more days to get things taken care of and properly file a police report. I do have to also say that I never thought about security being able to get into my room's safe until on this site. We always put our passports, cameras, camcorders, etc in it. Now, we will have to come up with a different plan..... AAUUGGHH! What to do with all of that stuff?? My ring, though, will stay ON MY FINGER. (and it is only about 10% of the cost of hers - but it is irreplacable to me!!)

Quote: Originally Posted by DanielleNDerek Wow those are big. I think you got a great deal on them, good job! I love how the description calls them "Big Ass" bags. That was my favorite part too! I often use that descriptive term! Funny to see it in print!

to the forum. I am sorry to say that I am not from Texas, but I wish I were! LOL I really am a Texan at heart - even though I only lived there for a few months years ago.... That is where I feel like I should be!

to the forum!

to the forum! I am sure that you will learn a TON about DW's here!

THANK YOU LADIES! It helped me to understand a bit more. I don't get how computers really work, so the server thing it totally over my head. I get the idea that it helps keep down on "lurkers". Like I said, I just was trying to REALLY get it. This helped some. Thanks to the three of you! I sincerely was wanting to figure it out! Computer programing stuff puzzles me to no end! THANK YOU!

Ashleigh, CONGRATULATIONS! I looked at all of the photos, and your wedding was beautiful! I can't wait for the full review! Since I am planning USVI too, I am anxious for the nitty-gritty details! You looked GEORGOUS! The colors were wonderful. Everything looked perfect! CONGRATS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND!

Quote: Originally Posted by foxytv Interesting -- but sounds pretty fast and easy. Don't you love those Home Ec tips?? lol And, they pretty much taste like ones on the stove too. Maybe a little fluffier. (is that a word?) I add a dash of garlic salt, some pepper - all the stuff I would normally do on the stove - when I make one for me. Sounds odd, but it is quick and easy. My FI even adds some chopped ham to his "double" one now - it's more like an omlet.

Kokomo by the Beach Boys might be good too. Summertime by Will Smith, maybe.

Okay. I have to say that since I read through all of the posts I fell a bit guilty about thinking the "Go Down Moses" guy was sooooo funny. I don't want to laugh at someone with a handicap... But, really - I can't get that song out of my head now! It is stuck - has been since I heard him sing it. AAUUGGHHH!!!!

If you are wanting something that "looks like a wedding cake" you could always do a small 2 tier one. It could be decorated how you would like - fresh flowers, starfish & shells, whatever you like. It could just be a smaller version of a "regular" wedding cake that you like.

In Jr High, our home-ec teacher taught us a quick way to scramble and egg before school - put it in a coffe size stirofoam cup and a dash of milk and stir. Microwave for about 20-30 sec. Stir. Repeat until done. I sometimes add cheese to my daughters. And, if we aren't taking it to go, I make it in a "real bowl" rather than a disposable cup. Quick and easy. I usually just grab a banana for me though!

YEA!!! That is so awesome! And, what a quick turn-around from your trip! GO Amir! GO Amir! BEST WISHES!!

Honestly, I do not understand what the points mean. Besides being able to "buy" stuff - what is their real purpose? It is not "feigning ignorance". I don't get WHY they exist. But, it doesn't matter. I am understanding HOW to use them, and I do. All I meant by still not understanding them is that I do not really understand WHY they exist. I don't understand programing. Maybe it is some tracking thing? Maybe it is to avoid lurkers? Whatever the reason - it doesn't matter as long as I am using them correctly. I was worried about having too few, so I began playing the lottery and have built up some points and no longer worry about that. So, I just use what I need and gain as I go. I am not trying to say that there shouldn't be a point system. I sort of like seeing mine grow and I like winning the lottery and all. I am just saying that I like to learn about things and have questions that I still don't know the answers to about the points. Not some huge deal. Just admitting that I don't know about it 100%. I have looked on here for explanations and can't find them.

Quote: Originally Posted by starchild Okay ladies, I've never been good at feminism so tear my head off if you think I'm nuts, but I actually agree with most of this! Not the let your hubby stay out all night or put on your make-up and ribbons part, but some of it I think is lacking today. Let me explain... "Modern" women have been re-programmed to bow to no man and make him cater to you, without much reciprocation. Everyone here is pretty smart, but in society in general, there seems to be a lack of respect for our men. He better buy me this, do this for me, etc. I'm not cleaning up after him, he can cook his own meals, you know the rest. If I'm home all day while DH is working, the least I can do is pick up the house and have something cooking (it helps that I love to cook). I should be happy to see him and listen to what he has to say at the end of a long work day. (not do what he says, there is a difference) Nobody wants to come home from work and be greeted with complaints or a cold welcome, and I enjoy making my man comfortable. I do, however, draw the line at make-up. What the heck do I need that for if I'm sitting in the house? LOL There should be mutual respect, and I'm sure women in 1955 didn't get that, so I don't want to go back there...lol But I think if women (in general of course) softened up a little and took care of their men better their men would take care of them better. I know many a miserable single woman who is putting out none of this and expecting the world in return. Maybe it depends on the man? Okay, let me have it I SOOOOOOOO get that too! I like to have him feel comfortabl when he gets home. Yes I work too and take care of my daughter. But, his job is VERY physical and draining. Almost every night I offer or just give him a back rub or rub his bald head or something. I am so NOT a feminist. And, I LIKE to take care of my man. It makes me feel good to do nice things for him. I have even started making his lunch the night before about half the time (when he says yes, as I ask if he would like lunch the next day). I LIKE getting his horribly smelly work clothes clean and fresh... I like being good to him. But some of those ideas were TOOOOO much! Like my grandma's!

Me too! GROSS!! Really, he knew he might be on TV. Or maybe he thought that gimic would help him be seen because it is so wierd and gross? But really - YUCK! I didn't think Texas was as bad as Philly though.... Philly seemed funnier to me.

to the forum! Happy planning!

Soooo... this is where my grandma got her ideas. She actually sat me down when I was engaged before. She had a talk with me about how when I am a wife it is my DUTY to have sex whenever he wants. Even if I don't feel like it or am sick. YEP. She was about 72 at the time - picture ROSE from the Golden Girls. She looks soooo like her. It was so embarassing! And funny! I couldn't wait to tell my best friend about it, she knows how loonie my gram can be!

Quote: Originally Posted by starchild The advanced search has been working sporadically for me but it worked right now. These are the only posted rules I could find, if there are other threads maybe Ann or someone can list them: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t8853 Quote: Originally Posted by AnnR yes! and i know there have been a few people that have complained and fought the point system - like thinking it wasn't fair. i don't know that it's a rule as much as it is respect for Tammy and the forum she has created for us, but the point system is there as a way to help her manage this forum and it's resources. we all have to remember that Tammy pays A LOT of money to manage and keep this forum running, and also puts in a lot of her time into this forum ... all for us, and out of the kindness of her heart ... she doesn't get paid a dime. so when she sees someone that fights the system that is in place, it's complete disrespect to her and not someone we probably want as a part of this group. ok, stepping off my box. Ann & Jamy, I totally get what you are saying. I asked about rules because I seem to be breaking ones that I did not know existed. I read the rules/guidelines in the thread above, but it didn't say anything about not asking for help in the shout box. I am also the same person who messed up about the points. I wasn't trying to "do wrong", I just didn't get the system. Honestly, I still don't 100%. I have looked for detailed explanations, but can't find any really. (I haven't done what I was told was against the rules since I was informed!) So, I just try to do my best without offending anyone. But, that doesn't seem to be working either. I want to post and not be a "lurker", but I keep putting my foot in my mouth. I am really NOT trying to "get around" rules. I was HONESTLY asking for them so that I could quit messin' up! I don't want to be the one who keeps getting called to the carpet. Tammy - I apoligize (again) for offending you in ANY way. I appreciate this wonderful forum! As a new person, I have NO idea what you do or have done or what the costs are or what the sacrafices are for you. I am not saying that they are not true - I just don't know about them. I have NO idea what it takes to make something like this work - either technically or financially. But, I am learning a little as people post about it. So, thank you again. ~Brandi

You look GREAT! And, I second the vote for MORE PICS! You soooo have to get someone else to take some pics so we can get the full view from front and back. GOTTA LOVE EBAY TOO! What a deal!

to the forum! Happy planning!

to the forum!

Quote: Originally Posted by host Brandi, the shoutbox is not to be used that way...i am really starting to wonder if you are just looking for a reason to get banned...first you had an issue with points and now you can't follow ann's detailed instructions...i am really wondering if you are looking to get banned. tammy OH MY GOSH! I have asked for assistance once or twice rather than posting a duplicate thread when I could not get the search or advanced search to work. I had seen others ask for help there and reached out as well. That is a reason to be banned? REALLY? 2 things: 1 - Can someone please direct me to a detailed list of rules? Again, my search is not working and I now know I can't ask for help on the shout box to find the rules. I like this group and would like to remain a part of it. 2 - Do you have an issue with me for some reason, Tammy? I feel like there is a problem, but I am not sure what it is.... Have I offended you in some way? If so, I apoligize.

Another thing that helped me was to set up my pages so that there are40 posts per page. Makes for a LOT less pages.... I will be on one thread and someone will say something about it being 14 pages, and I am like "What? I am only on page 3??". I like it a LOT better that way!