Me and Jayson assumed we would be paying for everything. My parents have offered to give us money, but I'm not counting on anything. Jayson's parents recently said, "well what can we pay for?" and we said that we just want them there. They came back with "how about the alcohol at the reception" and we said "great!" I'm not gonna argue with them if they are offering to pay for anything but it wasn't expected. All our family and friends are paying their own way to get there and stay, so we didn't want to ask family for additional money even though both have offered. We'll see how much help we end up getting