That's def not a stupid question at all, especially considering some of the rediculous rules some of these resorts have! The truth is, I haven't asked if I could bring in my own cake, but I plan on bringing in a good amount of food for guests with dietary requirements, so I figured one little cake won't hurt That being said, a wedding cake is included in the price of my reception so it's not like they are losing out by letting me bring another cake in...