It sounds like you guys had the perfect number attend the wedding. My FI and I are trying to cut our guest list down (currently at approx. 150) but aren't sure how to do so without offending some of our friends. Did you send out the invites for the AHR at the same time as the wedding invites? Perhaps that would be a way to keep everyone feeling involved without crowding our actual wedding?
Also wondering, with numbers being so up in the air, did anyone invite people after other invitees had declined? For example if you have a set number of people you can accommodate, if one invitee says no, then send ask someone in their place? Maybe tacky, but I'm just not sure how not to offend anyone :s
All advice/tips/suggestions welcome!!