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#41 starchild



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    Posted 20 September 2007 - 07:08 PM

    Focus on the good and only bring up the bad to remember how you will not subject your children to that type of behavior. There is inherent good in everyone, it hurts when people can't see that and destroy lives in the process. You will remain in my prayers.

    #42 Heidi

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      Posted 20 September 2007 - 07:49 PM

      Thank you all for your kind words and your condolences. It really means a lot to see this many replies to my post. You girls are the best!
      Married April 4, 2008 at the Riu Ocho Rios!

      #43 Nrvsbride

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        Posted 20 September 2007 - 08:03 PM

        Heidi I have not been on all day so this is the first post I am reading. I wish I had magic words that would make all your pain disappear but I don't. All I can say is that I am terribly sorry for your loss and my condolences goes out to you and your family. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through but I hope that you will reach that closure and peace that you deserve.

        Please know that we are here for you whenever you need us.

        #44 robindepaula

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          Posted 20 September 2007 - 08:05 PM

          Heidi - know that you are in my prayers . . . . I am so sorry for your loss. If you need anything, please let me know!

          #45 amyh


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            Posted 20 September 2007 - 09:22 PM

            oh Heidi, I'm so sorry. You can still memorialize him somehow. Saying good bye does not necessarily mean going to a funeral hall or gravesite. Its sometimes gathering your memories, momentos and honoring his life. Big hug.

            #46 Karen

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              Posted 20 September 2007 - 09:37 PM

              Heidi, My thought and prayers are with you. Don't worry about closure, you will find it. It may take some time but you will. I wish you and your family peace.
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              #47 tvt

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                Posted 20 September 2007 - 10:28 PM

                oh heidi, I am so sorry

                #48 michelle08

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                  Posted 20 September 2007 - 11:45 PM

                  Heidi...I"m so sorry you are going through this. I am the worst at this sort of thing because I bottle up alot of my emotions...but I know you will get through this!! It will be hard and regardless of your recent lack of connection with your father...it will be hard because those good memories will always be there regardless and those are just what you need to hang on to to be at peace!

                  Good Luck!!

                  #49 dragonfly

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                    Posted 21 September 2007 - 03:00 AM

                    Heidi, my heart is broken for you, I am so sorry. I wish you had the closure you desperatly needed, I really think you should go to some grief counselling to help you with all of the very mixed emotions you are feeling. I wish there was something positive to say but I can't think of anything other then be thankful for the love you have in Reggie and that beautiful baby of yours, you really are blessed.


                    #50 ajncooter

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                      Posted 21 September 2007 - 06:26 AM

                      heidi im so sorry for your loss.. your such a happy go lucky and giving person... your family will be in my thoughts and prayers...

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