To tell or not to tell?
Posted 17 July 2007 - 10:48 AM
Here's my question.............do we tell family that we got married here?
I'm very torn on this decision and just wanted to hear everyone's thoughts!
Posted 17 July 2007 - 10:50 AM
IMO, when we were talking about it, we weren't going to tell anyone, so everyone thought they were actually attending our wedding. I just felt some people would be like they already got married and not go... But I can see pros and cons to both...
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Posted 17 July 2007 - 11:02 AM
Well then word got around that we are doing it on Friday, so now we have a couple of people coming with us that are not going to the wedding in Cabo....
a couple talking about 10 or so, and then we are having a mini dinner celebration.
It will be fun, Erik didn't think it was a good idea at first and said I was planning two weddings...but hey we have friends and family they really wanted to be there to celebrate with us....
Posted 17 July 2007 - 11:06 AM
My friend Monica who is getting married in Sept (Dreams PV) already did her legal marriage at the JP the beginning of this month. Only their parents attended and other than the parents, I think only the wedding party knows about it. They're not telling all the extended family etc. I think in large part because they just don't want to answer a zillion questions about it. Like, "Well since you got married here, why didn't you just have the wedding here?" Stuff like that.
I'd say it probably depends more on how the two of you feel about it and how sensetive or grumpy/prone to griping (to be quite frank!) your various friends and family are.
Posted 17 July 2007 - 11:11 AM
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