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Only married 7 weeks and heading for divorce :(

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Sad to see there's no word from Leslie -- so very hard to imagine what she's dealing with right now, and with so much of an emotional and psychological burder on her plate, I can't say I'm surprised she hasn't been back to let everyone know how she's doing. I'm sure the word "despair" can't even begin to describe it...

 

I know if it were me, I'd have a hard enough time trying to get out of bed, eat a meal, go to work, anything -- still, I hope she knows that we all LOVE and SUPPORT her in this troublesome time, and we ARE HERE if she wants to rant, scream, cry or be there however she needs.

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Im so sorry Leslie! This is very tragic! I wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy! Its such a shame. I viewed your planning thread over and over (your planning thread is the reason I joined this site! crazy huh!) and got so many ideas from you! I cant believe what seemed like the best wedding I've ever seen would end up like this! My heart is with you girl! Keep your head up! :)

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Im so sorry Leslie! This is very tragic! I wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy! Its such a shame. I viewed your planning thread over and over (your planning thread is the reason I joined this site! crazy huh!) and got so many ideas from you! I cant believe what seemed like the best wedding I've ever seen would end up like this! My heart is with you girl! Keep your head up! :)

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Thank you all for your words of advice and support. It means the world to me. Honestly it was just too hard for me to even deal with this situation for sometime. We have decided to begin counseling and give this marriage a real true try. I am going to give this counseling about 4 months and then revaluate the situation. I do believe him that he is not talking to her anymore and he has tried to work out of another office as well as signing into his emails and giving me his Blackberry password to build trust. Thanks again for being so caring and understanding, it means so much to know you ladies are here!

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Thank you all for your words of advice and support. It means the world to me. Honestly it was just too hard for me to even deal with this situation for sometime. We have decided to begin counseling and give this marriage a real true try. I am going to give this counseling about 4 months and then revaluate the situation. I do believe him that he is not talking to her anymore and he has tried to work out of another office as well as signing into his emails and giving me his Blackberry password to build trust. Thanks again for being so caring and understanding, it means so much to know you ladies are here!
Nothing good comes easy sweetie... stay strong... We'll all be here to support you which ever way we can.... I am glad to hear your giving it your all...

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So glad to hear from you sparkles. You are a very strong person, I am happy to hear that you are going to try and work through it, from what you describe sounds like your husband is on board. Good luck, praying that it all works out for you.

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Thank you for the update. It's a long road ahead, but as long as you both remain committed to your marriage and each other, you can do this!

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Glad to hear you are ok.

I am glad that he is realizing the seriousness of the situation and giving you the tools to regain trust. I really hope that you work through it and come out stronger than ever!

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