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Are you inviting Boss/co-workers to DW?

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#11 Krista_H

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    Posted 21 December 2009 - 06:58 PM

    I'm inviting them to the ahr, but just family and close friends to the dw. I say make your own rules and invite the people you want there.

    #12 carolina24

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      Posted 21 December 2009 - 10:13 PM

      we're inviting the managers b/c FI is a manager as well and we kinda felt like we had to. pretty sure non of them are going, so it was just the thought that counted.

      #13 debbmach

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        Posted 21 December 2009 - 11:18 PM

        What a great question...I've often thought the same thing! FI is school so there's no work people from his side, but with me I think I'll only invite a few co-workers to the AHR. The ones I'll invite are the ones that I'm actually friends with outside work. I think everyone's different and you have to do what's best for your situation!

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        #14 DRB

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          Posted 21 December 2009 - 11:50 PM

          I only invited those who I was close too. I didn't invite my supervisors (I'm in grad school) only because 1) I'm not that close to them personally, and 2) It would be really weird if they came, lol! Of course they're both older men so I don't think that they care anyways.

          #15 Butterflyf369

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            Posted 22 December 2009 - 12:10 AM

            I only invited two people I work with, one of them being my boss. She's pretty amazing and has been really good to me so she's coming! It was tough not inviting some of my co-workers. Looking back now, I probably would have invited those that I was close to. I doubt they would have come but it would have been nice to have them share a little part of the wedding, if only the invite.

            #16 Erika J

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              Posted 22 December 2009 - 12:12 AM

              I am really close with my boss/ co-workers but my guest list was already so big, i just decided to tell them it was only our closest friends and family.

              They all understood.

              But I think you have to go all or nothing with it. Like you cant just invite your boss and not your co-workers. JMO

              #17 pinayflava

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                Posted 22 December 2009 - 12:42 AM

                ugh....i am in the same boat too! i don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but at the same time my guest count is already at 225 for a DW! Wedding pressure/stress is starting!

                #18 ~Angela~

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                  Posted 22 December 2009 - 12:47 AM

                  I am a teacher and work with about 50 others. With our guestlist already over what we want, we are only inviting a select few. I work very closely with two educational assistants, and they are the only ones from my staff that I am inviting. My FI is also only inviting a few people. People seem to understand though.... I guess because it's DW

                  #19 caribbeanLover

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                    Posted 07 January 2010 - 07:32 PM

                    We invited the FI boss, knowing he wouldn't come..got a nice gift lol!
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                    #20 loua4

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                      Posted 08 January 2010 - 12:42 AM

                      I know that my boss wont go and that 90% of my co-workers will not be able to get the time off to come to my DW. But I love them all. We are a small bunch that work in a clinc. About 16 of us. I see them all day everyday, we share everything with them so if there is a chance that a couple can go, I will invite them and have invited them all. I can totally understand if you work with tons of people then no I would not be inviting anyone from work unless they were a close friend like my co-workers.

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