Am I wrong?? I don't want the B#$ch to come!!
Posted 27 August 2009 - 03:56 AM
Let me give you a little history without boring you.. We have dated for 6 years, during the first year of us dating she tried to set him up with one of her "loose" friends behind my back. During this time she and I were hanging out and spending time together!! He told me out of respect, but asked me not to tell her that I knew. So needless to say I ended the "friendship" with her and haven't seen or spoken to her in 5 years.
Last week, she called various family members of theirs crying that I didn't send her an invite. I am SURE that she didn't tell them that she was a awful friend. I don't want her there! It is my day! Am I wrong? I know it was a long time ago and it should be water under the bridge, but she betrayed me in the worse way and I don't want to force myself to spend 7 days looking at her. What do you think, should I give in to my FI and invite her?
Posted 27 August 2009 - 04:30 AM
Games, DRAMA, and Bullsh*t have no place at your wedding - period! Anyone or anything that makes you uncomfortable need not be there. This is something that is not up for discussion, nor should it be given further consideration. This cousin of his did not care about you or YOUR feelings when she was setting your FI up with someone else, so why should you give a sh*t that she is upset that she can't come to the wedding?! Boo-hoo, and too bad for her that she made such poor choices.
And HELL YES darlin'! IT IS YOUR day, and if you would feel even the slightest bit at-ease that she is there, it's best she just stays home! Some bridges burned can never be rebuilt....
Enjoy your soon-to-be husband, the moments you will share, and the fact that only love and goodness will surround you on your wedding day! Feel free to PM me if you need to vent, because I am surely with you, sweetheart!
Posted 27 August 2009 - 07:29 AM
maybe this has killed two birds with one stone - she wont be at the wedding AND she will be so 'offended' she will never speak to you again - WIN-WIN
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Posted 27 August 2009 - 10:35 AM
By the way, she doesn't want to go to your wedding, she wants to go to Cabo and have you and your hubby pick up the tab for a meal or two.
You are totally in the right. She's being an obnoxious woman and you should feel free to let all of your relatives know that the reason she's not invited is that she tried to set FI up with one of her skanky friends and you are no longer on speaking terms.
Good grief. That woman needs a good slapping!
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