It's my turn to vent!
Posted 03 August 2009 - 10:05 PM
I already knew my sister wasn't coming. I'm over that nightmare.
My aunt and uncle, who when I sent the STDs responded that they wouldn't miss our wedding for the world, told my mom last weekend that now they couldn't come because they had to buy a new car. My cousins told my mom that they weren't sure...and then they also told my mom that the travel agent told them that they could only come for 4 nights or they couldn't come at all....
Nobody has called me to ask me any questions!
My Travel Agent hasn't called me to tell me anyone has even called her with questions!
I always knew how important my friends were to me....but now I'm really seeing it.
The only family either FI or I will have will be our parents. Everyone else coming will be friends.
I know there are so many brides going through the exact same thing.....I feel better just sharing it.
Posted 03 August 2009 - 10:53 PM
Posted 03 August 2009 - 11:16 PM
Posted 04 August 2009 - 10:29 AM
I know its hard...Its hard for me and my FI (he really wanted his mom and bro to be there especially) but you cant force anyone to go and what are you going to do...right? I'm hoping that the day of the wedding things will go so beautifully that I forget all the chaos and so does my FI and all turns out great and I am hoping the same for your big day.
And if you still feel stressed then take a boxing/tae bo or turbo jam class so you can punch out the frustration and look good doing it..lol...thats what Ive been doing :-)
Posted 04 August 2009 - 10:34 AM
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Posted 04 August 2009 - 03:56 PM
i think it's pretty revealing to find out people's priorities when they have to do more than just drive to get to a family member's (or even friend's) wedding. what i think it should say more though, is how awesome your friends are and that you've got a great group around you, regardless of it's family or friends! and when in doubt, you know you have all of us to vent to!
Posted 04 August 2009 - 03:57 PM
at the end of the day, we all want everyone to be there - but if they are not so what! you and your FI will be there and that is really all you need (well -plus the witnesses of course). you can see everyone else when you get home.
like a bunch of people have already said - they will be soooo sorry they missed it.
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