Are you 'friends' with your ex-bfs on Facebook or MySpace?
Posted 06 November 2008 - 04:54 PM
The other 2 ex-bfs, one from high school and one from college, I still have some mutual friends.
I really don't think my FI would care and I'm not asking because it feels "wrong" to me. I'm just wondering if it is common?
Posted 06 November 2008 - 04:57 PM
My ex's have added me to FB, my FI doesn't care, and I only still talked to one...but we don't really keep in touch anymore at all. Actually since he found out I was engaged he hasn't contacted me! Strange. Oh well.
Posted 06 November 2008 - 05:00 PM
Posted 06 November 2008 - 05:02 PM
However, I have to add that if my husband found out I had an ex as a friend on there he would flip. He's super jealous. It's an emotion that I don't really understand since I was never a jealous person, so I figure to leave well enough alone. Since he's the one that makes me happy, then I do what I can to make him happy.
So it's totally a judgement call on your part. Just make sure you think of your FI's feelings also.
Posted 06 November 2008 - 05:06 PM
I say if you have not talked to this person in the last 2 years and will more than likely never talk to them on facebook then do not add them. When facebook first came out all I did was add, add, add. I went through & deleted more than half of the people I was "friends" with. And most of them have since tried adding me again (multiple times!) and I just ignore them!
Posted 06 November 2008 - 05:08 PM
Posted 06 November 2008 - 05:54 PM
i've tried contacting another ex to say hi b/c we were in touch for awhile, but he never responded.
dh has no problem w/ me being in contact w/ any ex. i also don't add people just to have more friends, so i wouldn't search for any other dudes i've dated.
Posted 06 November 2008 - 06:41 PM
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Posted 06 November 2008 - 07:15 PM
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