'We went to their wedding' question...
Posted 02 March 2008 - 03:26 PM
My FI attended 2 weddings in the past year. Both of them for my 2nd cousins. We are now working on finalizing our invitation list and are unsure if we should include them or not. They are awesome and I would love for both of them to attend with their new hubbies, but if I invite them, it kind of opens a door. My family is HUGE and I have about 30 other 2nd cousins, plus parents! I really don't want to have to invite everyone! Where does the line get drawn? And if I don't invite the two couples, I'm afraid they be offended. They talked to my FI and I a lot at their weddings about ours and how exciting a DW is and if I need any help in planning to let them know, etc, etc...
What does everyone think? Also, if it makes a difference, I'm not really close with either of them... I see them probably once or twice a year at family functions.
Posted 02 March 2008 - 03:35 PM
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Posted 02 March 2008 - 04:57 PM
Even at an all inclusive resort the per-person stuff starts adding up fast. I say its your day and you are only obligated to make it perfect for you and FI!
Posted 02 March 2008 - 06:29 PM
Posted 02 March 2008 - 06:40 PM
What do your parents think? They might be a good resource for understanding how to handle this situation..
Posted 02 March 2008 - 06:50 PM
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