Confessions

[Erika J]

Holy crap Lisa and Tracy that is almost spooky!!

[~Stephanie~]

Lisa and Tracy- I don't think you are alone on a lot of those confessions, especially the "wedding night" one. The ipod thing would really chap my ass! No way is that happening at mine! I will be the ipod Nazi, everyone can just consider it an extension of my bridezilla behavior!

[YaelM]

I think we know who the new twins are LOL!

[~*Kathy*~]

Lisa & Tracy - yikes, sorry to hear about all the stuff that you guys are still bummed about! Lisa, you shouldn't have let your DH talk you out of the lighthouse...men!! No matter, your pics are STILL amazing hun!! That's weird about the middle name thing though...wtf? lol

[JOSIE]

I'm confessing that I pouted last night to my FI about something he did, but had already apologized (and I'd already accepted) several days ago. Why the hell did I bring it up again and pout? Of course he's gonna be annoyed and feel like he can't win.

 

SORRY FI!!! I Love you and shouldn't do things like that!

[~Stephanie~]

Josie, that's funny! I do that sometimes! Or I don't tell him what I am mad at and he apologizes anyways, which then I feel really bad!

[drtracy]

Oh NLDT I don't know that I could ever replace you. But maybe Lisa and I could be RWATs (Random Wedding Annoyance Twins).

 

Josie ~ you're not alone there, the nice thing is that you recognize it and can give good lovin's to make up for it.

[KittenHeart]

Confessions:

 

#1 - I'm upset that I tried so hard to remind my fiance when our anniversary was time and time again hoping he would do something sweet (yesterday we made 5-years) and he's so broke he picked me a few flowers on a walk and cried like 3 times to me yesterday for having no money, which he's devastated about. I was cool and sweet but I am so scared and jarred with this whole "having your own business" struggle.

 

#2 - I'm majorly bitter that I've paid for this wedding so far, I have big debt now that I'm starving myself to pay off and he can't afford to chip in.

 

#3 - I'm really irritated at my BF who's getting married this Saturday; as MOH I threw her a gianormous Bachelorette (not to mention a bridal shower two weeks prior) that lasted 3 days in Vegas with 8 of her closest friends in a huge 2bedroom suite and the Palms Place which tipped over to $3K for the whole weekend and she asked me to collect $16.25 from myself and each bridesmaid for the effing disgusting pink sash she's making us all wear over the dresses we bought ourselves. Fine, make us buy the dress, but how cheap is she that she can't buy even just my freaking sash. Whatever.

 

#4 - My mom doesn't know my fiance has been married before... I'm too embarrassed to tell her.

 

#5 - None of my family at this point will be at my wedding and I'm actually in good standings with all of them. My father died when I was 17 and he's the only one I knew would have come.

 

#6 - I have no one to walk me down the aisle to and that kills me even though I tell people it's alright.

 

#7 - All of FI's family are coming... from all over the world, my family all lives a few hours away from me in CA and yet they won't be there. What does that say about me?

 

Wow, that did feel better... I could have gone on and on too!

 

Thank you guys, I don't know what I'd do with out you sometimes... my sanity sure as hell would disappeared long ago!

[Ebbie475]

Kittenheart,

Take a deep breath baby, it's gonna be alright! Family, you didn't pick them. Ya know!?

As far as your MOH, whom you are MOH for upcoming wedding. People just don't freaking get it. It amazes me when stuff like this happens. 16.25 for a freaking sash! I'm pissed off about that for you! Whatever!

Girl this special day is for you and your FI. Don't let the ignorance of those that we love get to you. Keep enjoying your DW plans and have fun!

 

#7 - All of FI's family are coming... from all over the world, my family all lives a few hours away from me in CA and yet they won't be there. What does that say about me?

Absolutely nothin'!!! You're good girl, don't start analyzing yourself because of folks. The older I get the more I say F#$@# them!

 

Sorry, I digress.

Take care Sister fellow bride

[KittenHeart]

Ebbie475 thank you!

 

You totally put a smile on my face I just need to breathe, get through her wedding this weekend and focus on mine!

 

Thank you for your kind words, I really can't let it get to me because it makes me go insane!