Not my guests, what to do?
Posted 31 January 2008 - 04:24 PM
My question is what to do with these people? I've never met them, but they are close to my aunt and uncle. Do I invite them to the wedding? Do I make them a Welcome Bag?
We're all going to be on the same flights, in the same section of the resort, etc. so I don't want anyone to feel left out, but I also don't want them to feel any obligation towards us. If I make them Welcome Bags, that will be about another $100, plus the cost of our private reception, cake, etc. The little things will add up! But then again, they are saving us about $1000 per person by filling a spot...
Yes, I know I over analyze!
Posted 31 January 2008 - 04:28 PM
Posted 31 January 2008 - 04:29 PM
Posted 31 January 2008 - 04:34 PM
Posted 31 January 2008 - 04:50 PM
I wouldn't spend another $100 on OOT bags if out of your budget. If they are planning on attending. I would let your aunt share their invitation and other things with them. They are your aunt's guests not yours.
Long story short: I had a "maybe guest" who showed up extra at my good friend's wedding so I gave a bigger "monetary gift" to cover any inconvenience.
Posted 31 January 2008 - 06:38 PM
I'm also doing a group contract and have guests who are bringing a guest (since the rooms are double occupancy.) I don't know all of these people, but I'm treating them as wedding guests anyway, since they are guests of my family and friends. You have to do what's economical for you though!
Posted 31 January 2008 - 07:47 PM
Posted 31 January 2008 - 08:28 PM
Just what I would do in that situation...
Posted 31 January 2008 - 08:31 PM
Posted 09 February 2008 - 11:14 PM
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