Congrats on deciding on a destination wedding. We too decided to have a destination wedding because of prices here. We choose the Riu Ocho Rios in Jamaica to have our December 2012 wedding. My first choice was Secrets and then Sandals but both were adults only and I have a sister who is 8. Secrets does amazing weddings and Sandals does the Martha Stewart weddings. Both are beautiful. After a lot of research on here and comparing prices between the ROR, Grand Bahia, and Iberostar I decided on ROR. If you have questions for me about these resorts please let me know. Happy planning