My lovely FI propsed on Christmas Eve and we decided to give us enough planning time to have our DW in October 2011, plenty of time for people right? I'm still gathering all of the information and pricing, but Saturday my brother (my only brother) IM's me to tell me he can't commit to my wedding, a wedding that's 22 months away... I was hurt to say the least, but at the end of the day my FI family is all very supportive and they are planning on showing up so if my brother doesn't come, it's his loss.....