KimmyD

Carolina - So Sorry to hear about your BM. For the life of me I don't understand that last minute crap! All you can do is move forward. Â I am really worried about how to pack my carry-on, I have to figure out what gets put in that 21" bag. I wonder what I will forget? I am also worried about all the OOT bag stuff, I don't want it to get lost. I worry about making sure everyone has a good time, but staying within my budget (not). I am having a pretty simple wedding, no real reception just a dinner. I hope they don't get bored - I am totally blowing my budget on a Mexican Trio! So, while I worry about all of this I want to enjoy the whole thing. I was supposed to NOT WORRY. Â Well, I leave on the 14th and we get married on the 18th! I will say I am really getting excited also! All of you ladies are such a blessing! THANKS!

You looke absolutely Beautiful. Thanks for sharing.

Beautiful!!! Love your colors!

I am still working on my OOT bag stuff. I hope to be done soon. I am really getting weird! I want things to be really nice and my guests to have fun but I am feeling the stress. I hope my dress still fits, I think I may have lost more than I thought I was (not a bad thing really) BUT...I am determined to ENJOY my wedding!!!! We will have a blast! 26 Booked! 78 Room Nights!!!

Thanks For the Review! Great Pics! Can't wait to see more.

Thanks for creating this site it truly is a godsend!!!! I am soooo excited about this upgrade!

What a great job!!!

OMG!! Great Job! Love Enrique - LOL!!!

Beautiful Pics!!! He will LOVE them!!!

I think you did an amazing job! Congrats!

Wow, what a fantastic job!!!! Thanks for sharing.

Beautiful job! You are going to have a wonderful time!

Very Sexy!!! He will Love them!

All of you guys are amazing! Thanks so much for the great advice! I appreciate it so much. I don't even really know you guys and I feel like I have great firends who have my back! Thanks Again!

Beautiful Wedding. What a great time. Thanks for the review.

Everything Looks Great! Nice Job!

Wow! You have done an amazing job! Thanks for sharing.

My FI said this to me when I talked to him about this: (Almost exactly what he said anyway) I don’t want them there at this point. They have made their choice and choose to not be part of our lives. I was hurt and angry, but now see it for what it is. If they were to book now because of guilt I think they would make it miserable for us. I would regret the results of doing it. The last thing I want is to have someone be a part of our day that doesn’t want to be there. My father is going to be there and is really looking forward to it and I am happy with that. You are the only person I need to be there! I want this to be the best day of our lives! I guess we move forward. If he is ok with it then I am also. I just want him to be happy.

Thanks so much for the great advice, You have no idea how much it helped just writing the letter. I am not going to send it, I am not sure I ever was. It hurts that they are not coming no matter what the reason. I am so glad I found this forum, I feel like I have some great support here. We will see what happens, I will talk to my FI again and see if he feels like sharing how he feels with them. Maybe they will change their minds. I will let everyone know what happens. Thanks Bunches! Kim

My FI and I just found out my in-laws will not be attending.We think it is because she has decided not to like me. (She does not like any of her sons wives or girlfriends) Although my wonderful FI really thought she would love me, he was dumbfounded that she did not. (I am sooo lucky!) I was thinking of sending this email, I am not sure I should or what it should say. Here it is: I am sorry that you have chosen not to attend our wedding. I was told that you had other plans. We were engaged March 17, 2009, we sent out our save the dates with 9 months notice. I simply cannot comprehend what could possibly be more important than seeing your son get married. You have really hurt Mike with this decision. Mike's reaction to this has surprised me, he is extremely angry. This wedding location was picked out by Mike, this is very important to him, he has been planning this thing right from the start. This is also an opportunity for you to meet my side of the family and our very dear friends who will be attending. It seems that Mike's side of the family will be solely represented by Seth. Thanks goodness one person from his family cares enough to be there for him. This is the start of a wonderful new life for us. Help Ladies, Please! Thanks, Kim