Quote: Originally Posted by brandynd Oh hun I'm so sorry! I've been in the same boat for the past several monts since FI and I had to cancel our DW and plan a domestic one. My bridal party has grown from 3 to 9, and not everyone understands what responsibility comes along with being a BM. Try to keep positive about it, not everyone has been there, so they don't understand how stressful it is! Try to sit down with the girls who are being difficult and explain your frustration to them. If all else fails, just remember, you still have 3 girls who are going to help make your day perfect! Very True! So right!