A and I are doing pre-mart counseling now and we are enjoying it. At first A was pretty upset about it and thought it was dumb. We know how eachother works and what makes us upset. What is nice is having a 2nd point of view of us. After taking a test and going over our answers we realized we are actually a very close couple. We scored better than I thought we would and realize this marriage will work if we stay on the same path.