Hi there,
I am really on the same page as you. There are a few things that I am going to outline that I want in writing with the WC but other than that, I am leaving the rest until i get there. Things I am going to confirm is the location of the wedding, i want a gazebo not the beach. As well as where i want the reception. I am not stressing over linens, centerpieces, etc either. I am bringing my own IPOD for music. As less stressful as I can make this, and the cheapest!