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Well the way I did it...was I also have a TA...he did not make me do a deposit but he did ask that all guests book through him so that everyone can get the lowest rate. So right now it does not matter where anyone is living or flying from they are booking through him and it is working out tremendously...as we now know who is fully booked, if they are paid and so and so forth. I am not sure about the whole deposit thing...but each TA is different.

I think they are unique and they are special meaning that they will be remembered and like more so by everyone because of the thought that has gone into them...

Quote: Originally Posted by catandcleo CayoLargo - Check out this link. It has some interesting information comparing the three metals (white gold, platinum and paladium). Keep in mind it came off the internet, so it might not be 100% accurate, but it might help some! Jewelry, Gems, & Minerals: PALLADIUM VS. PLATINUM RINGS, platinum engagement ring, metals market Thanks I will check out this site and see what it has to offer... Quote: Originally Posted by kevsgirl Palladium is harder than white gold and lighter and less expensive than platinum. In terms of colour, I find the palladium rings I"ve seen have been a lot more steel coloured, like this image, that shows 18K yellow gold, 18K white gold (rhodium-plated) and an 18K palladium ring (un-plated) from the side on: Palladium can be plated too, but the plating wearing off makes it look greyish, whereas when a white gold ring wears off its plating it looks a little yellow-y or less white... I really don't think it matters that much, but I do think you want to match your metals. That is really good information and I guess I will have to talk my FI into getting a plain platinum band...Thanks a lot though for the information I see it has helped out a few different people!

Quote: Originally Posted by Jocy Can i ask a really stupid question.. What does TTD stand for?? I can kind of guess that it involves a photo shoot with the couple standing in the ocean or something and I'm very relieved to hear brides do this after the wedding day! I love the photo's but was rather horrified to see wedding dresses wet!! TTD - Trash the Dress

Hey ladies, I am needing some advice. My E-ring is platinum with three stones in round shape and it is time for my FI and I to buy bands. I really wanted a platinum band to match my E-ring but they really are costly so here is my question... Does white gold look similar to platinum? What if I went with a different type of metal would it clash? I really need to figure out what to do...and I was hoping to buy my bands via internet so who can help me. What will look good? thanks Three Stone Diamond Engagement Ring 1.25cttw (my ring looks similar to this)

Well I want to answer your question about price for a photographer goign down with you...I am doing this after a whole bunch of research and talkign to some photographers who were asking outrageous prices... Anyways...I am getting a photographer for the wedding she is out of GTA and is charging as follows: Bride and Groom pay for the travel costs for her to come, plus $500.00 for an editing fee this includes engagement photos, wedding day photos (all day) and a TTD session OR an excursion shoot. Based on others I have seen this is the most inexpensive and you get a bang for your buck! www.shutterbrugs.com As for buying another dress...I am not sure of this...as I am unsure if I will do a TTD session...I am really unsure as of this point but it depends on your dress and depends what type of shots you want to get...my friend did one but she never immersed herself in the ocean or the pool just got the bottom a lot more dirty from it dragging on the rocks and more dirty ares which is easy to get out. Good Luck with everything.

These are some of the best photos I have seen especially since they are done by you yourself and a self-timer. I give kudos to you and your FI for pulling that off...Can I ask what type of camera you used...I know you said digital but what brand and kind? Those are truly great!

Try this site... Quilt Wedding Guestbook - Onewed.com It has some specifics I love this idea...I may use it myself.

Hey ladies, Well I am still undecided on whether I want to wear a veil but I have always thought I would...so I need some advice. MaggieSottero.com - Brittanya Lynette - Dress Detail (I do not know how to put the picture so you can see it so please look at the link above) Anyways I am wondering what type of veil to use with this type of dress or should I go with a large flower in my hair? Also would you wear a tiara with this dress? Thanks ladies.

Welcome not only because you are a fellow Cuban bride but also because there is another Canadian in this mix...YAHOO!

Quote: Originally Posted by Tammy Host alot of people do not realize that this forum started as a hobby of mine when i was planning my wedding...back then it had 4 members. now it has over 5000 with 20-30 people joining every day. i pay for the hosting, software, tech support, etc. out of money from my own pocket and also am the one that has to do all the upgrades, maintenance, etc. on my own in my free time as i cannot afford to have someone work full time keeping this site running smoothly. i think people also do not realize that searches, downloading attachments all use server bandwidth so they cause the server to run more slowly...so when you see a newby complaining about "Points" and why they can't just download as many attachments as they want and you donate points thinking you are being generous, keep in mind what you are really doing. also, when you complain about the ads, also keep in mind they are the only thing keeping this forum up and running...if this server plan i have now does not work i will have to upgrade the server AGAIN. this will take a ton of time and also cost double what the hosting plan we are on now costs. another thing, I own a travel agency that specializes in DW so when you advertise your own travel agent for perks or whatever it is a little frustrating. Well I am not having any issues but I do want to say that what you are doing here is a great service to all of us brides and grooms who choose join. You have supplied us with a place to get info, share info, and get support on a variety of things. I may be new to this forum but I see the work that has had to go into it to make it happen. Thank you is all I can offer to you and it comes from the deepest parts of my being!

Well this is what I think... The Amsale seems very fun (that is why I picked it) and to me a DW is fun. Plus it looks great on you. As for the other...it is more of a sophisticated look still sexy but much more serious looking. You could always wear both...one for ceremony and one for party!

Here are some places I have scoped out: WeddingTropics Beach Wedding Shirts | Beach Wedding Attire: Beach Wedding Shirts | Guayaberas, Linen Pants, Boys Linen Shirts, Mexican Wedding Shirts. Grooms - Island Importer (this is where I bought my FI outfit) JoS. A. Bank Clothiers - Clearance Stays Cool 2-Button Suit Bluefly - Designer Clothing, Handbags, Shoes & Accessories (Prada, Fendi, Gucci & more) at Discount Prices Good Luck...this was the worst thing about the entire wedding was finding this suit!

That sounds like a great idea...to bad you have to order 100 or so to get the good price...I would only need like 40 or so....great idea though your guests will love them.

I believe that you have an opportunity to really get some great family shots before the baby arrives not to mention in a beautiful destination. Just think you can have the photographer do some baby bump shots on the beach, in the water...it would be very special to look back on. Even though it is not what you envisioned the pictures will still be the memories in photograph form of that day and that week! You will be glowing no matter what...they will look great and it gives the photographer something more to work with to capture your special day... Ultimately like you said it is your choice!

There are so many BM dress places...it is really about searching around but you can check out these websites for ideas... Wedding Dresses, Bridesmaid Gowns and Accessories from David's Bridal Tuxedos, Formal Wear and Bridesmaid Dresses by After Six Frocks Modern Bridesmaids Jealous Bridesmaids - Toronto's Wedding Dress & Bridal Boutique Bridesmaid Dresses, Tiaras, Wedding Veils, Wedding Planning VictoriasSecret.com: The Official Site of Victoria's Secret Macy's - Clothing, Shoes, Bed & Bath, Kitchen, Beauty Brands & Sunglasses Just go to Google and type in "bridesmaid dresses" and you will get a lot of sites...also there are other threads on here that have BM dress ideas. Good Luck!

I feel your pain April...my FI and I had been planning a DW wedding well before the engagement even happened...my family knew...but then when it came down to actually planning it many of my family gave me a guilt trip about the cost. So I am also dealing with it...but my FI and I have stuck to our guns and have continued with a DW. We are not planning on doing a reception at home on our return just sending out nice pictures to all of our family. I think when it comes down to anything in life you have to stand your ground...you must do what ultimately makes you happy and in this case your FI happy as well. Good luck with the letter and be prepared for the worse!

Welcome Lulu...I just love that name! You will get a lot out of this site so just keep reading and reading!

Here is a site that I have been using about what the requirements are... Check it out http://www.weddingcubachannel.com/do...legales_en.pdf

I had not heard but I have already bought my Maggie dress so I hope that if this is the case that you jump on it soon...Be sure though I think the others have given good advice in the way of checking it out...the website might say something too!

Quote: Originally Posted by sunshinekc08 If I was you, I would definitely take your FI BM to lunch or something to get to know you and your other BM's, so when it is time to all get ready, she can get ready with you all the girls and feel really comfortable. I also think she will feel very important if you make the effort to get all the BM's together to get to know each other before the wedding. I really think its up to you where you want her to stand. I would even them out, but these days you don't have to be so traditional and formal. So that is completely up to you. As far as who signs for you, if they both are equally important to you, do something fun like, rock paper scissors, draw straws, hula hoop race, cooking contest, ect.. Just say, I love you both & I really can't choose between you both, lets do something fun to decide. My girlfriend had a bio dad & a step dad & they both walked her down the aisle. when they asked "Who gives this woman?" Step-dad said "her mother & I", bio said "I do" I thought it was very sweet. I would call your Step-dad first, since you are closest to him & tell him what you decide. Let him know you haven't told your bio dad yet, so he fells important. I would just be honest with both of them. Remember this is your wedding & if someone gets upset b/c of your decisions, than just remind them, you are not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, these are tough decisions & if they can't understand that and not take things personally, then how much do they really care about YOU? I really thing being honest is the best thing & most everyone will understand if you tell them from your heart! Love the idea of having the sort of duke it out for the signing authority...maybe I will do something fun to do the picking...who knows.! Thanks for the suggestion though it sounds like a lot of fun.

Quote: Originally Posted by Hartyt509 Ok this could be really simple lol (famous last words) As FI's BM what she would like to do. Say I'd love to involve you with all the girls but its your decision - let her make the decision lol As for signing I thought you needed 2 witnesses each, if thats the case both sorted you don't have to ask anyone over the other. Ok dad situation. Again speak to your step-dad and ask him what he would like - at the end of the day he has brought you up and you've not known the other that long so its only fair he gets a say. If he says he's ok about it then ask bio dad if you are just starting to build your relationship he may feel uncomfortable and just be happy to be at the wedding as opposed to in it. So really just ASK decision will probs be made for you lol I know I need to ask the questions but what I am thinking I am going to get is what ever you want honey as the response so I need to be prepard with an answer. As for the witnesses ya we need two but one will be from my side and the other will be from my FI side so that is why I need to pick.

Quote: Originally Posted by tvt hmm, here's my first thought after reading your situation. have dad (married to mom) walk you down the isle and have bio dad meet you there and they both give you away. Groomswoman - should stay with FI since she is his part of the wedding party. IMO anyway! Good luck figuring it all out! Thanks...love the idea of having one walk me down and then both give me away at the end of the aisle...Thanks again for that great idea.

Great advice, great day you placed in my mind and I am so glad that with all your hardship your wedding day turned out to be the best day.

Quote: Originally Posted by STACEY As for the grooms women, I think I need more info on her. As for your dads walking you down the isle. Fi you want them both included, why dont you have them both walk you down the isle, that way no one feels left out. The Grooms woman has been friends with my FI for many many years and I have only met her about 4 times. We are not close but do email and little back and forth. Not sure what else to say... As for them both walking me down the aisle...does that not make my dad (married mom) feel cheated a bit as he has been the one with me all the years...this is why I am confused.