Hey Afrommert, I am in the process of working on invites as well. I went to this website to get wording ideas... Invitation Wording Samples by InvitationConsultants.com - Bride & Groom Inviting.
I am using this wording (It's not my name or info...just from the site):
Together with their parents
Julia Esabella Sanmeters
and
Nicholas Kristoff Demett
request the honour of your presence
at their marriage
on Sunday, the fourth of October
two thousand fourteen
at six o'clock in the evening
Mount Zion Church
11890 Leaf Avenue
Chicago, Illinois
At the bottom of the invite, I am going to ask guests to RSVP through our website (I don't want guests to have the hassle of mailing back rsvp cards.
I am not going to include the at home reception on my invite because I think that if those who are invited see that they can come to a party at home, they might not pay to come to the actual wedding. We will send out really informal invites for the AHR closer to the date, after everyone has booked.